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If one is good, more MUST be better right?
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If one is good, more MUST be better right?  As most of you who've followed my blog know, I LOVE 3-ways and group gropes of ALL kinds and over the past number of years, I've been fortunate to have been involved in more than I could possibly count including the 'holy grail' that most guys have of having sex with two (or more) women at once. While I DO truly love group sex you MIGHT be surprised to hear that I really believe that one-on-one sex is the best when it's between me and someone I love and care deeply about.. In that case it's NOT just having sex, it's actually 'making love' and that my friends makes ALL the difference! Sure, I enjoy having a house full of naked people all flopping around and I have so much fun not only 'ganging up' on someone but also BEING ganged up on but all of that pales in comparison to the TRUE act of making love. There's a HUGE difference my friends, a HUGE difference between the two and unfortunately, words are actually failing me at the moment but I think you KNOW what I'm taking about. NSA 'type' sex can be so cold and impersonal at times. While certainly fun, it can in fact leave you empty. That human 'connection' is missing and for me at least, that sucks. While I do care about my partners, even in group type situations, it's just NOT the same. In a group-grope, it's all about sex, period. The emotional connections that SHOULD be there are missing and sex devoid of those connections is a pale substitute for the 'real thing' IMHO.. The old saying, be careful what you wish for, comes into play here. I KNOW this is coming as a shock to some of you but it IS in fact the way I really feel about it. I'd be HAPPY to give up NSA/Group sex for my honey, any day and twice on Sunday just to be able to feel that love, those connections with her and her alone!  -tm |
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I know man, I know ! I mean,in the afterglow,who do you cuddle with, or bask in her glazing eyes ? Even if there are a couple of great women besides you - you need one sigh turning sleepy in your ear. Perchance to dream... P
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Thanks for the post. I have always admired married swingers and how they can bounce between the two worlds with out jealousy or walling emotions for each other. It must be a very strong love. I creatively come up with uncreative things - What the blog was I thinking? CLICK HERE to join the sexy Half Naked Wednesday group (HNW group)...Caution: They get a bit creative!
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Wonder if I will ever find a post of yours I disagree with?
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A few years ago, when I was really active on this site, I had the best of the both worlds - a close knit group where many of us loved each other and had fun together, along with a partner who I had fun with both alone and together in the group. Things change though and the last few years have been much more about an intimate connection with one. And I totally get your point. I'll be curious to see where it goes now...I find I like the combination of the two - the best of all worlds. But then I'm greedy that way! lol. Always tell the truth Use kind words Keep your promises Giggle and laugh Be positive Love one another Always be grateful Forgiveness is mandatory Try new things Say please and thank you Say your prayers Smile ~Author unknown
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They are different, and both have their place. Perhaps the long-elusive definition of a swinger might be someone who recognizes -- and appreciates -- the joys of both? Just a thought... Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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I think you hit the nail on the head with your statement about making love and having sex as being different. 
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