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Fingers/hands
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Fingers/hands  Hands and fingers are probably the single most used sexual parts of our bodies AND the least written about and/or discussed. I'm as guilty of this as everybody else mind you. Sure hands and fingres aren't as 'sexy' and boobs, butts, cocks, asses and pussies but never the less, they ARE or can be, the 'go to' tool in anybody's sexual tool kit  From a soft caress to a tight squeeze or a playful slap, our hands and fingers typically lead the way and knowing HOW to uitilize these marvelous tools can make he difference between an OK lover and a great one! I can not tell you how many times, during group gropes, 3,4-ways or whatever, I've watched some 'ham-handed' guy using his hands and fingers all wrong. (BTW, it hasn't always been guys) First off you gals have it easy. Grab a guys cock, stroke it long enough and he will start making funny noises and spurting before too long. Easy You gals are a bit different and require a bit more finese, not only in the clit/pussy department but overall. How many of you women LOVE a guy with strong, sensitive, experienced and knowledgalbe hands/fingers? I bet a bunch of you are nodding your heads yes! Learning how to pleassure a woman with your hands and fingers is Sex 101 in my book and unfortunately, a lot of people skipped that class. Aside from all those lovely things that hands and fingers can do elsewhere, it's the clit/vagina where a LOT of folks, mainly guys fall down on the job big time. Remember that 'ham-handed' lover I mentioned? OH LORD I wish I had a dime for every time I've seen that. First off, if you're going to explore your honeys nether regions with your fingers make sure your fingernails are CLIPPED and that your hands/fingers are CLEAN! Second, realize that every woman is different and they like things differently. A technique that works for one, might not work for another. Start slow, ask questions, pay attention, watch her responses, she'll let you know what is working and what isn't. Also, keep in mind that there are women who do NOT like having their pussies and more specifically, their vaginas 'fingered'. It happens, not often, but it does happen. No always means no! There is no substiitute for lubrication where it's natural or not. There's nothing worse than trying to stick a finger or two inside a dry vagina! One, two three fingers are usually more than enough with two being the norm. Never EVER try to fist a woman without talking about it first and THEN taking your time and working up to it. Again, communication is SO important. Don't forget the thumb. It makes a wonderful cock replacement! In a 4-way, I had two girls fucking each of my thumbs while the other girl was fucking my tongue/face. All four of us got 'off' at the same time. Use your fingers to find her G-spot! Its typically located on the top or 'roof' of the vagina just inside. It feels a little rougher then the rest of her VJ. When you find it, learn how to use it, she'll love ya for it. I'm NOT going to go into actualy details/tips/techniques here mainly becaue I'm out of time and that's really NOT what this post was about. Have a great Thursday. I owe I owe so it's off to work I go! -tm |
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Communication is THE key for any kind of sex. I have met a few women who do not like to be fingered. One will now let me and only because we have been lovers for over 10 years and we have built up that trust. She tells me I am the only one who she will let finger her. She only started letting me about 9 months or so ago. I've had some lovers who were shocking when it came to hands/fingers but through communication they got better and if not, bye bye.
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Let us not forget that it's not just different from woman to woman, but it can also be different from moment to moment. Where the blood flows changes what is and isn't good at the time. Exploration and paying attention are the name of the game.
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