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First anal
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First anal  I have 'deflowered' all kinds of<b> butts </font></b>in my time, both male and female, but this post is about my OWN little caboose. Doing anal for the first time does in fact take a rather large 'commitment' that's for sure. I'm pretty sure that no matter who you are, your first anal fucking HURT and hurt like hell. Getting past that pain is the commitment I"m talking about. Of course the larger or more to the point, the thicker the dick, the harder and more painful your first time was. I know mine was but then again, I had 'trained' myself somewhat over the years with various dildos, fingers etc so when the time came, I was 'ready' for it if such a thing can be said. I say that because there's a pretty big difference between a dildo and/or finger up the butt versus the real thing. Luckily my first time was with my good friend 'Tom' who has a smallish cock. Don't get me wrong, I love the guys dick. Its perfectly formed with a very suckable head but all pretty much in miniature  Even then, having him slide that boner inside of me caused a certain amount of pain especially after he really got going but luckily, that pain subsided and I relaxed and started to really enjoy what he was doing to me. Enjoy is the word for sure because that's exactly what I felt. Feeling that hard, throbbing cock slide in and out of me took me to a whole new world of sexual enjoyment, one that I never really knew existed. While I didn't orgasm in the normally way, I did in fact have what I'll call an anal orgasm and it was and still is, an incedible experience. Finally I could actually feel his cock swell inside of me as his storking became more intense until finally, he exploded deep inside my ass pumping me full of Tom-goo. That feeling alone was worth the price of admission my friends. Yes we were bareback, something I would NOT advise but in this case, Tom was a very good friend who I knew very very well. After, we lay there 'spooning' his dick still deep inside of me, basking in that lovely 'afterglow' two lovers feel after a good round of fucking. Finally, his cock slowly 'deflated' and slipped out of my ass leaving me with an incredible feeling of a cum filled rectum. Now Tom is a nice guy and a very giving lover. He actually flipped me over and sucked me off. Nice touch Tom We've fucked numerous times since then and of course, I've had my littly white ass pegged by others to be sure but there really isn't ever anything like that first time now is there? What was YOUR first time like? -tmp.s. While I'm VERY careful about who I let fuck me and I've gotten pretty good at 'sizing' guys up, the one exception I have is my friend 'Jim'. The boy has a rather thick dick but more to the point, he as an enormous head on the end of that thing. Now while that huge, mushroomy head is certainly fun for sucking on, taking that thing up the bum presents a whole NEW challenge. Luckily, Jim is a very kindly and patient lover and lord knows, he enjoys a good fucking as much as I do. He also enjoys rimming a LOT and he'll usually start with that followed by some fingering etc and then, once I'm ready, he'll use lots of lube. Even then, having him slide that huge head past my tight little sphincter feels like he's trying to shove a football up my ass. Thankfully, once he gets thta monster head past my sphincter, it's all good and MAN can that boy FUcK! I love to fuck in the position you see above, it's my fave and he's VERY good at it PLUS he will always give me a reach around. As is normal, the best fucks are when we BOTH cum together and that combination of feeling him pumping my ass full of cum while simultaneously having that anal orgasm AND a real orgasm is just sexual heaven my friends |
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My first anal was a really great experience, and I've never actually had "painful" anal sex - but before my first time, I had talked to a BUNCH of people about it and got really good advice. I was 33, in San Francisco, it was with someone I'd dated/slept with a few times, we were having sex on the sofa and there was a porno on that had an anal scene. I'd remembered a guy friend telling me that it "burns" when the guy first enters and if you pulled your butt cheeks apart with your hands, that feeling goes away. That first initial "poke" did burn, but the girl on the video was pulling her ass cheeks apart with her hands and I tried it - and it was like magic - the burning was instantly gone. I've never had a "bad" anal experience, where a guy hurt me. I was told that as long as the guy didn't slam his dick into you - or pull out suddenly (that can cause you to spasm) ... that it wouldn't hurt. So I've always explained to a guy before-hand what to do. Really, just some initial "anal foreplay" while we're having sex, a few fingers (or I'll do it) and when I'm relaxed just to ensure that he's fully hard and just kinda let me initially back up on him - and I'll let him know when to push deeper - and when I'm good for him to just fuck me like he normally would. I also really need a lot of clit stimulation, and some hair-pulling, ass-slapping, raking fingernails down my bag, clutching my neck, or any other kind of dominant/aggressive behavior and slight pain that'll be a diversion from what's initially happening in the booty area that might hurt. PULLING OUT SUDDENLY or pulling out and thrusting back in is an absolute, NO FUCKING WAY - I WILL KILL YOU IF YOU ATTEMPT TO DO THAT TO ME. I have had one, "forget it" experience, when I tried with Mr. V (former boyfriend) who was clumsy and shitty at sex in general ... and he just couldn't get hard enough to enter or do it slowly enough, so that I just basically gave up trying with him because it was obvious that he WAS going to hurt me/tear something - if he attempted to continue. I really don't think the guy's dick size is THAT big of a problem if he's large. Doc's cock is substantial - about a solid 8 inches in length and 7 inches in girth those last 2-3 inches at the base. (It probably adds another full inch of girth at the base, so you're "stretched" each time he thrusts in deeply.) We've both written our own versions of the story of our first anal. (As you Tazz, know.) His version is here: Do you really like anal play. He always said that he didn't like anal, but explains in that post that in his experience, the women he was with wouldn't do it - and the ones he did it with were luke-warm about it to begin with - he hurt them, so none of it was a good experience. After we did anal, he acknowledged that it felt good, he came hard from it (as hard as he could after about the 7th time we fucked that weekend), and he got into it because I liked it and I come really hard from it. We haven't done anal since then, just mostly because I haven't initiated it since then (I really insist on cleaning myself really well with an enema before-hand, and I just haven't bought any and brought them over during my visits since then). I just think, maybe the experiences for the women were bad, because they were luke-warm about anal - and they probably don't read or talk to a lot of people who have good experiences with anal - and they probably don't know how to really do the "foreplay" that makes it work out without being painful. Once the guy is IN your ass and it's relaxed, it feels SO similar to vaginal intercourse - except more intense - that it's not that big of a deal.
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We were both clueless and it hurt but not as much as I thought. I was prepared for the worst pain imaginable! lol
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