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The ugly truth.  

sam_hope31 46F
525 posts
3/3/2015 4:51 pm
The ugly truth.


I have known a few women and men in my life that have given up. What I mean is that they have given up trying to look good and feel good. Not only for them self but for their significant other as well.
Why you might ask?
They got married. Yes married. Marriage is not a ticket to give up.
One friend actually said "now that I am married why should I try to look good, for who? " why waste money on makeup and hair products?
Are you kidding me!! This is the kind of stupid shit that ticks me off. No one wants to look at a slob who doesn't fix herself up and walks around looking like the dogs breakfast!
The other friend of mine who said something similar. Only this was in regards to her weight. She recently got married 2 years ago and has packed on a good 50 lbs. Not that I am perfect but hey I put in a hell of a try.....I watch what I eat and work out on a regular basis. Why because it makes ME feel good. I think a little try gets you respect at work and in social situations as well. I have never been the kind of lady that does things to please a man. The exception being a few sexual positions then hey it's necessary sometimes.
But here is my thought of the day.
If these friends of mine were still searching for Mr. right or Mr. right now then they would still give a shit. So why give up? Do you not want your partner to be attracted to you...do you not want to feel good about yourself....do you really think it's that big a burden, are you not embarrassed to go out in public looking like you just got out of bed?
If married people still had the want and desire to feel that spark and attraction for one another or for someone new for that fact, then maybe more people would put a little more try into their day! Ok so I see how this is going to piss some people off and I see a lot of hate emails, but step back and think....am I not correct, do we all not need to put forth a little more try in life? Maybe we would all be just a little happier. Don't misunderstand this rant and think I am putting down fat people or ugly people....You can be thin or<b> overweight </font></b>and still put forth a little try! I bet that a good percentage of people who still try in life are having an affair? and maybe just maybe this is the key to living a happy and healthy life. Just my thought for the day, it's not pretty.....

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3337 posts
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GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
3/4/2015 7:00 am

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spudsy1000 50M
6594 posts
3/4/2015 2:59 pm

So right...don't you deserve it even just for yourself?
Make an effort...it's not that difficult

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heywpg 42M
314 posts
3/5/2015 6:02 am

I think the idea of only making yourself look good for others is the problem. If you do it for yourself, it doesn't matter if you are married, dating of single!


Hellboundhubby 48M
252 posts
3/5/2015 9:19 pm

Life doesn't end after you are married...... it just seems like it.lol.


LeathrAmator 66M

5/17/2015 2:43 pm

The north american diet is the cause of our increase in weight. You really have to watch what you intake. Its easier to look good at your ideal weight...then you feel good.


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