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FEMALE MALE FEMALE Relationship Here is a question: Why do most idiots think that a Female male female relationship only consist of sex and threesomes! Can someone please us understand this mentality. |
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 Hey just basically shows how shallow people are. Because of it not being what the public eye is use to many believe it to be purely sexual. Most minds out on this site have become weak and can't see past what's natural. Takes real strong individuals to be able to balance out the full aspect of that relationship. Many don't think of the mentality you need to be in such a relationship. Truly hope you get what you are looking for. Seems like it is hard to find someone compatible and capable of being mature about what you seek.
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12/10/2009 3:44 am |
Well the reason why think some folks think this is they are shadowed into thinking on the single norm. Some folks think that a relationship can not be a relationship with a female, male, female. Why? It's there single minded mentality of what is right. Folks are quick to judge of what is right and not viewing into if those person are happy. Yes we live in a society that is quick to judge. With that you have folks views on what they think is wrong in there eyes when its really not. It's not about the sex but about being happy. It's like that verse in that old OUTKAST song" You have that choice to be who you want to be, that's what my mama told me"(going old school Yes it's simple but folks sometimes don't like the simple way of things but follow on the single view of what they think is right. Each person is human and has views and feelings. It may seem as hard and a struggle but somethings are worth it. Keep you head up.
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12/10/2009 6:23 am |
There's more to life than sex; afterall, how long does that session last? Regardless, it doesnt last forever. The big question, what happens after fuckin, suckin...etc. This is is where the interpersonal relationship really begins. I must admit that the idea of dealing with two distint female personalities would be challenging, but it has great potential. Having two partners and three different perspectives on life is a plus. The only barrior that I see is our tendancy to be jealous. I would welcome the opportunity to experience a relationshiplike this. Sex is secondary, and friendship is eternal... There has to be a compatability of personality types. If someone can not see past the sexual benefit of this type of relationship and can only think of the sexual aspect of it, I would avise passing them by unless you just want a booty call and that is not the impression that I get from the two of you. You are both two EXTREMELY lovely nubian princesses in my eyew, keep it real my sistas, I'm on your side!
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Sex is one of those topics that is already heavily debated when it crosses paths with interpersonal relationships. In ancient Rome, people considered the obsession with sex a sin due to the fact of its harmful effect on interpersonal relationships with each other believe it or not until Christianity came in and changed the game. Romans were known to debate and fight during the day and have all sorts of orgies of all kinds at night. The reason for the comparison is that society was one of the few societies to figure out how to balance the lines between sexual prowess and interpersonal relationships (hence the strength of family and thus the empire of Rome as a whole). However these days men and women blur those lines and don't know the difference. Sexuality is a great thing that was bestowed upon humanity. It was bestowed upon us for procreation but just as important the union of people, mind body and soul. We don't seem to get the mind and soul part and just focus on the body. Thus leaving one or more parties feeling unfulfilled. Sad really...
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12/12/2009 5:27 pm |
I would say that a male and or a female who can not respect a ffm for what you say it is may mean that they are a little insecure. Unless of course you have given them reason to have some suspicion.
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Well most people automatically go into a situation like that only thinking about the sex, if all you wanted was sex you'd be asking for a "threesome". Relationships call for intimate relations, getting to know one another for reasons other than how big, how wet, how deep, and how you perform in bed. Relationships call for a deeper connection, and as one person said earlier - dealing with two distinct female personalities can be challenging but also rewarding. the point is getting them to understand that you have to be UP FOR THE CHALLENGE if you want the reward.
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A Female male female relationship is just like any other relationship with all the problems that come along with it. How one handles those problems with their actions and reactions will ultimately determine how wonderful or poorly the relationship is. An understanding of all the parties needs and desires whether mentally, spiritually, physically, financially, or even time spent together is needed in all relationships or catastrophe could possibly occur. In relationships, sex is usually the thing that is done the least. If your partner and you have sex more than anything else then it really isn't a real relationship, y'all are just sex buddies or some type of fling. Why people think Female male female relationships only consist of sex and threesomes, I don't know. I can only guess that they are not thinking about the relationship because that's what matters.
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most guy just think of it as just fulfilling sexual fantacy I use to think the same until I was in a fmf relationships for about 8 months but the commitment is the same it's just to 2 people insted of 1
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You answered your own question.. They must be idiots..
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I think the answer lies in the 'learning curve.' How many people, especially in this day and age, truly even know what a relationship is? If they find themselves lacking in a one-to-one situation then they definitely cannot handle polyfidelity. The main reason why most swingers and members of Alternative Lifestyles are so mature in this subject is because it requires so much more focus on the foundation of a relationship and the trust and love that goes along with it. Sex just reinforces that; it's not the goal of it so I think that's where so many fail in understanding...
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5/16/2011 4:00 am |
Most men that havent been in a thresome relationship think sex, but ofkourse there is more to it than thath.
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5/17/2011 1:21 pm |
Real men are hard to find but we are around. Let me in your head.
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its just like any other relationship but its has 3 people involved. i dont see what makes it so complicated.
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If the parties come together in the beginning with the understanding that this is a real relationship n not BULL... then there is a foundation 2 build upon. Relationships take time especially if one is not comfortable r knowledgeable about what this type of relationship entails then u will have problems!!
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Well I've never been in a threesome of any kind before but I suppose my theory to some degree has been hit upon by the other guys before this post. One, the average guy just want the sexual aspect of threesomes to be fulfilled. Two, beyond sex I'm sure the whole "it isn't natural" and relationships is supposed to be between 2 people regardless of orientation. Three, well there are guys that see maintaining a relationship with 1 woman as such a waste of time, money, and energy beyond the sexual aspect that idea of having 2 women needs and insecurities to manage just seems crazy and doomed to fail. I admit though if half of what your profile says is true I'd be willing to give it a shot. I find challenging situations to be quite enlightening even if they fail miserably.
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It does not. I was once in a fmf relationship and we never had a 3some!  They were sisters and had decided to share me for not take me from one another .
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I was in an f-m-f relationship without any three-somes! Two sisters who both wanted to be with me nad loved each other too much to have one take me from the other. I only had sex with one at a time but they felt closer to each other for having the same Boy friend.
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More than anything it show how immature a lot of people are mentally and sexually. It's hard to find people who really has an honest open understanding about sex and their own sexuality
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