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What I can't do for myself  

peekabooicu2ucme 46F
3728 posts
6/21/2009 6:40 pm
What I can't do for myself

I am a fairly independant woman. I make my own money, pay my own bills, don't really ask alot from anybody and take care of myself and my for the most part by myself. I can and do satisfy myself in just about every way, but what I've found is that there are just a few things I can't do for or to myself that I really miss alot.
1. I can not kiss myself. I truely enjoy the feel of a great kisser exploring my mouth with his. I can be kept happy for hours this way. I've been caught breathless with a really great kiss. It makes my heart race fast and my whole body quiver. Just about nothing excites me quicker or satisfies me better than a really great kisser.
2. I can not hug or cuddle with myself. Nothing like being held in a mans arms and feeling comforted and safe. Protected from the harshness of life even. Cared for and loved. Caressed lovingly and almost petted really. I could just purr sometimes in such an embrace!
3. While I do talk to myself alot, it is not the same as bouncing my ideas off another thinking individual with a whole set of ideas all their own. Constant companionship is something I adore. Not needy clingy I need you here every second of every day type thing, but that comfortable whenever however whatever kind of easy friendship is wonderful.
4. I can not cry on my own shoulder and feel comforted. I geuss that's sort of like number 2 but what I really mean is when I'm at my lowest point and need to just let it all out, there is nothing better than having someone who cares to tell me it's going to be alright even though intillectually I already know. Confirmation and positive feedback. Ok, so just blowing sunshine up my ass sometimes. Whatever, it's something I don't or can't do for myself.
5. I just can't give myself a good massage. I can however give myself a happy ending!
Other than the other obvious 2 or more person activities, that's pretty much it I think. Anywho thanks for stopping by and if you have any additions I have missed be sure to let me know so I can lament about that also.


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peekabooicu2ucme 46F
4530 posts
6/21/2009 7:08 pm

    Quoting  :

LMAO! Actually I'm a pretty tough chick and can do that for myself but thanks for worrying about that for me!

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peekabooicu2ucme 46F
4530 posts
6/21/2009 7:20 pm

    Quoting  :

Ok, you got me, that I can't do. Not sure I'd really want to, but nope, can't do it.

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Extramist 66M
14079 posts
6/21/2009 7:25 pm

It is a good thing that women cannot do those things for themselves...otherwise they wouldn't need us men around.

AKA The Clit Whisperer.


Baltasar45 63M
9207 posts
6/21/2009 10:18 pm

Yes, some important things on that list coming with your 'significant other'.

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peekabooicu2ucme 46F
4530 posts
6/22/2009 5:26 am

    Quoting  :

Didn't try but how funny would that have looked?!? And gosh, I don't care if he can lick his own eyebrows so long as he knows how to lick me. Have a great day at work. Thanks for the humor.

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peekabooicu2ucme 46F
4530 posts
6/22/2009 5:27 am

    Quoting Extramist:
    It is a good thing that women cannot do those things for themselves...otherwise they wouldn't need us men around.
*Sigh, I suppose that's just it. I'm in need of a great man to have around. Thanks for stopping by.

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peekabooicu2ucme 46F
4530 posts
6/22/2009 5:28 am

    Quoting Baltasar45:
    Yes, some important things on that list coming with your 'significant other'.
Yes, it will be nice to find him.

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rm_1eroticjoe 63M
3768 posts
6/22/2009 8:16 am

First time on your blog. Nice post... You are a thoughtful person!

Items 1 & 2 are definitely at the top of the list for basic human needs and for adults they are hard to come by without a significant other or at least a very close other. The good thing is that you can sample these from good potentials.

Items 3 & 4 can be accomplished quite nicely with a good same (or opposite) sex friend. Some people even prefer it that way.

Item 5 can be easily purchased and probably will be better in the hands of a professional anyway.

I think that narrows the list but avoiding the poor potentials will increase the chances of a shared happy ending.

Moral: Take your time but don't stop looking.


peekabooicu2ucme 46F
4530 posts
6/22/2009 8:48 am

    Quoting rm_1eroticjoe:
    First time on your blog. Nice post... You are a thoughtful person!

    Items 1 & 2 are definitely at the top of the list for basic human needs and for adults they are hard to come by without a significant other or at least a very close other. The good thing is that you can sample these from good potentials.

    Items 3 & 4 can be accomplished quite nicely with a good same (or opposite) sex friend. Some people even prefer it that way.

    Item 5 can be easily purchased and probably will be better in the hands of a professional anyway.

    I think that narrows the list but avoiding the poor potentials will increase the chances of a shared happy ending.

    Moral: Take your time but don't stop looking.
Thank you so much! I do take my time and am always looking. Thanks for the input.

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