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The Art of Conversation
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The Art of Conversation ...is dead, apparently. Mostly dead is more accurate. Not everything has to be about sex on here, I should know, I've made a lot of really great friends on here and none of our conversation have been sexual. That is in part because we treat each other like human beings and not like giant, typing sex organs. Guys-Having a dick is great okay? I'm a big fan of what some of you have to work with but that does not mean the first image of you I want to see is your limp/hard giant/miniscule member pouncing out of the screen and into my face. Post a body shot or a face shot or partial face shot. Respect yourself enough to represent yourself with something more than your cock! Also, (you know what really grinds my gears) when you message a girl, have a little decorum. Respect her. Realize that just because a girl is on here, it does not mean that she is a slut//whatever. Standards still exist and respect from both parties should still be given. I know that I'm much more likely to respond to a simple "Hi" than a sloppy, mostly disturbing screen cap of what you'd like to do to me. You don't know what I'm into, 75% of you haven't or can't read my profile and I don't even know you. Which brings me to my next point! I LOVE SEX. This does not mean that you can treat me like I'll just fuck anything or anyone. I'm pretty sure this applies to the females on here that want to actually meet people. We have standards and guys (or gals if you're the one struggling with this) YOU SHOULD TOO! Do you really want to stick your thang into something that's had who knows what inside her? And girls, do you really want to chance ruining that perfect pussy for some dick that will fuck anything? Conversation is a semi-lost and beautiful art. The mind is an erogenous zone that is BEGGING to be stimulated. And also, 5 or 10 or 15 minutes of conversation does not suffice. Get to know a person, find out about them, keep the conversation going, for yourself as much as for the other person. Basically, have some dignity people. If you wouldn't do it in a bar/grocery store/coffee shop/other traditional date meeting venue, then it is probably not okay to do here. Yes we are on the internet and yes we are shielded by anonymity and yes we are on an adult site. But that doesn't mean we can't be treated like actual people. So...just think about that next time you want to message someone or the next time you're wondering why people don't write you back or im you back or whatever. |
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applies to both men and women though. Example of me in here... but at a grocery store: Me: "hello ma'm, it is funny that we are both looking at the same kind of potato chips, hahahahaha Her: .... Me: ma'm? I am sorry to bother you but I thought it was funny Her: ..... me: hello? I mean, I said hello, would be polite to answer back Her: ...... Me: that's was not very polite Her: YOU ARE A MYSOGIN EXCUSE OF A MAN YOU F*CKED UP PERVERT WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE CALLING ME NAMES?!?!?! Well behaved me pay for the jackasses... but if the art of conversation is dead, then the art of answering and/or politeness is deader than dead, like... White Walkers dead.
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I think that's an excessive example lol. Also, I mentioned guys and girls a few different times in there and I also used the word "people" in reference to both sexes. However, as a female, I can't really attest to how other females approach men on here, just myself. Answering or responding to people is definitely part of communicating. It's not just one person's responsibility to keep the conversation up, it takes a partner. It's frustrating to have someone be rude to you but it's also frustrating to try to make conversation and have them barely respond or don't do anything to further the conversation. And I said mostly dead would be more accurate, there have been some people I've met on here who I have had lovely conversations with. However, on a purely statistical basis, it's a pretty low percentage.
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