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Casual Dating is Never Casual  

brwn_eyed_grl2 34F
61 posts
5/17/2016 5:47 pm
Casual Dating is Never Casual


We're all looking for something. In life, on here. What are you looking for? Most days I don't know.

I joined here just as a kind of joke. I didn't expect to find anything and instead I've made some great friends, had some great relationships. I found a husband, who would've thought of that?

I think it's funny that when I was on here not necessarily looking for anything in particular, I had it basically thrown at me from every direction. Now, when I'm on here to make friends and to maybe find more than friend, I'm finding it a little difficult.

I'm still married. I plan on staying married but my situation is maybe a little different. We aren't swingers. I'm not just looking for a quick fuck or a partner swap. I mean, to be perfectly honest, there are times when I might take that, but ultimately that is not what I'm looking for, it isn't what I want and in the end, it's not something that makes me feel great about myself.

I want to date someone. I want to have a friend who wants to do things together and also have sex. Lots of sex. Lots of really great sex. But also you know, do things together. Like you know, date someone, be a part of their life.

I don't want to be some quick fuck in the back of the car before you go back home to your wife/girlfriend/whatever. I like beds. Ones you don't have to pay for.

Will I find this? I don't know. I haven't up until now. I know that it might be a lot to ask of a person but hey, we want what we want, right?

brwn_eyed_grl2 34F
68 posts
5/17/2016 6:24 pm

I mean, sex is always nice too haha. But it's just always nicer when it means more. You know what I mean!


iwalkstilts 48M
2869 posts
5/17/2016 7:00 pm

I agree, sex is better when it's more than just a fuck.
If two people know eachother well enough then it can be lovemaking and a totally awesome fuck session simultaneously!


CuteAndNormal 58M/57F
390 posts
5/18/2016 4:52 am

You and me both, Brwn.

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