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Tip #4 - Great Blowjobs Boil Down To Communication  

ineedyounow55 65F
1425 posts
10/9/2009 11:05 pm
Tip #4 - Great Blowjobs Boil Down To Communication

Did you know communication is just as important in your sex life? If you and your partner make an effort to communicate about sex and about your sexual needs, you'll be on the same page sexually and have a greater and more satisfying sex life. When it comes to blowjobs specifically - communication can help make you a diva in bed and give him the kind of oral sex that will blow his mind!

Listening
Listening is the first part of communication. While your partner might be open to telling you exactly what turns him on and what turns him off when it comes to blowjobs, he might be the more subtle type. This doesn't mean that his communication is turned off though - you just have to learn to look for it.

Make eye contact with your partner and read his facial expressions - is he enjoying what you're doing? You can often tell by what expression he's wearing while you're giving him head. Listen to his vocalizations - does it sound as if he's really enjoying himself? Listen to the individual vocalizations as well - is he making a more throaty moan when you use a certain technique? This may indicate that he enjoys that technique more, while a more quiet moan or none at all may mean that he's not "in the zone."

Basically, you're listening to see if he's lost all control of himself, or if he's still aware of what's going on. You definitely want him to lose control!

Talking It Out

Some issues just need to be discussed with words, such as where the semen will go during ejaculation and whether you like hands to be placed on your head or not, etc.

Communicating with your partner is one of the number one things you need to do in your relationship with your partner. Without avid communication, your relationship can fall apart.




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bedfordshireboy9 58M
802 posts
10/10/2009 1:00 am

 Yes agree, just some people are better communicators than others just as theer are some people who give better head than others


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