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Cock Sucking why is important to a man.
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Cock Sucking why is important to a man. Why is Oral Sex so important to a man? The penis is the most sensitive and vulnerable part of the man's body. A male's identity is strongly associated with his penis. His semen is like rare nectar that he wants to give to you as a gift. It makes your man feel loved, accepted and received when you give him oral sex. When you refuse it, he feels rejected. Who wants to see a man act like a sad lost little puppy? One of the best ways to show your man how much you love him and keep his eyes from wandering is to give him fellatio. (Okay now this may not be 100 percent fail proof, because there will always be those men out there that will wander even if they are getting what they need at home). It is no secret that men enjoy fellatio immensely, but sometimes women underestimate the importance of this. Okay, some of you women may get angry with me for this next statement, but it is a reality that women must face. If you do not give your man oral sex, the chances are very great that he will get it elsewhere. (I know from experience, because I have a couple of male friends that are married and I am the one that provides the much needed lip service they want). It is one of his most basic<b> sexual needs. </font></b>There is probably nothing that would make your man happier than oral sex on a regular basis. If you provide this for him, you will be irresistible to him. If you have an aversion to fellatio, it would be wise to seek someone to discuss this with, unless your partner feels the same way and it is not an issue in the relationship. There may be many reasons why you don't like to give oral sex that can be overcome. You may feel it is disgusting or dirty, or you may feel used or disrespected. You may view it unconsciously as something that bad girls do. These are some of the inaccurate messages that women receive growing up and sometimes they become internalized. By talking these things out with a professional, perhaps you can undo the conditioning and learn to enjoy oral sex. It may also be helpful to try and think about how much you love your man, how sweet and precious he is to you, as you give him fellatio. Try to see the penis as an extension of who he is. Show him how much you love and adore him, how very special he is, by focusing on pleasuring his penis. If it is the flavor that is distasteful to you, you can try drinking a tasty warm tea prior to sex, or brushing your teeth immediately before for the nice minty aftertaste it leaves in your mouth. Another option is to coat the penis with something flavorful or to suck on a breath mint while performing. If it is the semen that is disliked, you can try keeping a glass of your favorite tasty beverage nearby to drink afterwards, or keep the breath mint in your mouth during and after ejaculation. Men, you can help your woman become more willing by making sure you are fresh and clean. You also need to show your lover respect and appreciation for her act. Assure her that you love and respect her before and after fellatio. This should be the case in every relationship, but for the reluctant women a little extra effort will be required. If you have an aversion to cunnilingus, all the above can be applied to you as well, to help you find it more enjoyable. Simply performing the motions of oral sex is not enough; one must be effective and know their woman's or men secret buttons. One must also enjoy it. It is an incredible turn on for both men and women to see the delight in their lover's face and actions as they pleasure them or to hear their moans of enjoyment. Pay attention to your lover's body language and read their signals. Adjust your pressure, speed, direction and rhythm according to their desires and preferences. A favorite approach for the man is to lie between the man's legs while he is on his back propped up on a pillow so he can watch, or kneel on the floor between his legs while he stands above you. To really drive your man wild, look him in the eyes occasionally as you're going up and down his shaft. Delight in your lover's penis. Worship it. Show how much you enjoy it with moans of pleasure and desire. Use your hands, tongue and lips, alternate between stroking with your hand and stroking with your mouth. While stroking with your hand, suck, kiss or lick his head. Run your tongue up and down the length of his shaft, then caress and roll the testicles around tenderly with your tongue. The most sensitive areas of the penis are on the underside and along the coronal ridge, which is along the edges of the head. Caress his shaft and head with your mouth, and then engulf his head with your mouth and slide down to the base. Take it all in, baby! Every now and then tell him how beautiful his penis is and how much you love it. It may be very enjoyable to your man if you allow him to hold onto your head while you deep throat him or perhaps pull your hair a little bit. Not mean and vicious pulling, but down and dirty pulling. It can also be very arousing for the woman to have her hair pulled. It brings out the animal in both sexes. Once down to the base, pull out to the tip nice and slow with deep suction, and then go back down again. Increase your speed with each dive. It can provide fantastic pleasure for your man to rub his anus or insert your finger in his anus while you are licking and sucking him. I can get my own husband off in less than 5 minutes by taking my tongue and flicking it back and forth along the coronal ridge. When pleasuring your man it is very important to know that you should swallow at least part of the time! It can be insulting and is usually a turn off for your man if you act repulsed by his semen. It is a loving gift to delight in your partner's ejaculation by swallowing, or at other times, a fun alternative can be to watch the ejaculation shooting in various places such as on your breasts, face, buttocks, abdomen or wherever you prefer and then rubbing and caressing the semen on one another. Once he has come, it can be very pleasurable for some men to continue sucking and licking him tenderly while he is soft. You will keep your man very satisfied and happy if you provide him with spontaneous unexpected oral sex. Give him a surprise wake up call in the morning by slipping between his legs, or wake him up from a nap with a little oral delight, or while he's watching football or driving the car. Nothing will make your man happier than you being his little cocksucker. When you are giving a man oral or manual stimulation, you are giving him a very precious gift. This means that you are the one giving him pleasure. Since it is a gift, you are the one making the choices. You are not obligated to do any particular technique or to allow him to use you as an object. Part of what really turns a man on about oral and manual sex is that he is giving up his control to someone else. A large part of the sexual experience is the exchange of power. When it comes to sex, women have a lot of power. So, as you perform any oral or manual technique, make sure that he knows that you are in charge of the process, that you are confident in your ability to bring him to orgasm on your terms and your timing, and that he can trust you to give him a better orgasm than he's ever had before.  I am who I am and I am not going to change for anyone, so don't ask!         |
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1/12/2010 6:56 pm |
there is a big difference between a blow job and a bj from a woman who LOVES to suck cock. Like anything you have to love it.! ! !
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sooooo then why is it that I love to "share" my tongue as much or maybe...noooo not maybe more so than my cock...
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sweet music to my ears and I am sure to every man's ears too
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lol you are good.. you make me almost want to give a BJ ... and I'm straight .. But all of what you say is inescapably true !
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