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Blogs > ineedyounow55 > The Blow Job Expert is in.

How do I convince him?  

ineedyounow55 65F
1425 posts
2/4/2014 10:02 pm
How do I convince him?

I swear to God, I am married to the most hard headed German. I have told him over and over that now that I am an older woman, yes I said older woman, that I need more time to get well you know ready for sex. He thinks foreplay is something a woman does only for the man, because he certainly does not want to spend much time getting me ready.

I love sex, but dammit, I need time to get wet, but he just will not listen. Last night he crams his fingers in my pussy and just like all the other times here lately, he tears me apart. It is like sand paper and it causes me to bleed and then the fun is ruined, just like the sheets on the bed. Then he wonders why I do not want to make out with him.

Oh I am just venting.

I am who I am and I am not going to change for anyone, so don't ask!
ineedyounow55 65F
826 posts
3/1/2014 1:21 am
    Quoting venusallovermars:
    most men seem to forget about foreplay after the third date. You would think with all the talking they do that they would learn about it before spouting off. Every guy out there is an expert with their tongue and they all love a romantic night cuddling watching a movie. Is that visual supposed to impress me? or excite me? first of all guys I havent 'cuddled' since I was 5. second, watching a movie and cuddling sounds pretty damn boring. It may be 'sweet' but to get turned on we need foreplay with a capitol F and a little show of desire and passion and some slow senusal kissing building up is better than 'sweet
    Right sister?

    ps keep the lube handy - when you age you begin to get the reason they have a 100 different lubes out there. .... use em ... it might help.
I agree with you big time. I have tons of lube and he just never seems to figure out the big picture....lol
I am who I am and I am not going to change for anyone, so don't ask!


venusallovermars 65F
53 posts
2/26/2014 2:22 am

 most men seem to forget about foreplay after the third date. You would think with all the talking they do that they would learn about it before spouting off. Every guy out there is an expert with their tongue and they all love a romantic night cuddling watching a movie. Is that visual supposed to impress me? or excite me? first of all guys I havent 'cuddled' since I was 5. second, watching a movie and cuddling sounds pretty damn boring. It may be 'sweet' but to get turned on we need foreplay with a capitol F and a little show of desire and passion and some slow senusal kissing building up is better than 'sweet
Right sister?

ps keep the lube handy - when you age you begin to get the reason they have a 100 different lubes out there. .... use em ... it might help.
Venus


ineedyounow55 65F
826 posts
2/5/2014 1:25 pm
    Quoting  :
I have told him I am going to get him drunk, hogtie him face down on our bed, spread his legs and dry fuck his asshole until he passes out. You think you are evil, no way....I like the way you think.
I am who I am and I am not going to change for anyone, so don't ask!


ineedyounow55 65F
826 posts
2/5/2014 1:24 pm
    Quoting pleaseurass69:
    Is he a German or a Neanderthal?

    It sounds like the later.
Sometimes I wonder. I swear now that he has gotten older he seems to give a shit less if I have time to get ready or not.
I am who I am and I am not going to change for anyone, so don't ask!


ineedyounow55 65F
826 posts
2/5/2014 1:22 pm
    Quoting _King_Cobb_:
    You didn't fully "road test" him before you got married?

    Sounds like he needs to be sent straight to sex boot camp.
He used to behave different in bed. It is like he is always in a damn hurry which is odd. No kids at home anymore, so no need for a quickie. I just cannot seem to get it through his hard head.
I am who I am and I am not going to change for anyone, so don't ask!


pleaseurass69 55M
83 posts
2/4/2014 10:40 pm

 Is he a German or a Neanderthal?

It sounds like the later.


_King_Cobb_ 61M
25441 posts
2/4/2014 10:12 pm

 You didn't fully "road test" him before you got married?

Sounds like he needs to be sent straight to sex boot camp.

insert exploding bomb image here


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