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Blogs > rm_ganien > A Strange Bedfellow

Opening Backdoors  

rm_ganien 51M
1237 posts
10/22/2009 12:22 am
Opening Backdoors
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mytbone5 58M
1503 posts
10/22/2009 4:45 pm

 I've always had a curiosity about anal sex after seeing it in a porno. I would guess that the smell was not that pleasant.

My wife never even liked me to touch her anus. Even in the shower while washing her body, she would always take care of that area. I think the emphatic forbidding of any contact only peaked my interest more.

I think the cleaning process required before anal sex might just be too much work. I guess it could be turned into a form of foreplay, but defecation just doesn't seem all that sexy to me.

Proof reading my post indicates that I am still conflicted on my opinion. I guess if it was a request, I would be happy to give a woman all the anal she wanted, but if it's not on the approved list of activities, I'm good with that too.


rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
10/23/2009 1:54 pm

 I'm with you, I don't like being on top because it's just too icky. Everyone seems to glorify the backdoor, but no one wants to deal with all the shit, so to speak. So, if you have a front door available, why wouldn't you use it, except for the experimental value or for lowering your purity score?


rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
10/23/2009 2:02 pm

 Also, BTW, anal sex with a woman usually ends the evening. There's way too much cleanup required and yes, the smell turns eroticism completely on its head.

My ex-wife was really uncomfortable with me touching her anus. I used to do it sometimes when she was on top, and I had my hands on her butt cheeks. She would get pissed and say, "why are you always doing that?!" But it's my personality type to find the limit and keep pushing it. I can't even help it, I don't notice when I'm doing it. It's an urge and I act on it.


mytbone5 58M
1503 posts
10/26/2009 2:36 pm

 I'm not all that interested in my purity score. Not that big of a deal for me.


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