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This experience sounds amazingly wonderful! It's the kind of attention I would like anytime, not just because I might be with child. It's really all about the foreplay...TRULY!! Try this on her sometime after the baby is born. See if she responds the same way. The fact that you seek such a deep connection is awesome. I wish I could find someone seeking the same. Best wishes, and pre-congrats on the baby! May he/she be healthy and happy. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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This experience sounds amazingly wonderful! It's the kind of attention I would like anytime, not just because I might be with child. It's really all about the foreplay...TRULY!! Try this on her sometime after the baby is born. See if she responds the same way. The fact that you seek such a deep connection is awesome. I wish I could find someone seeking the same. Best wishes, and pre-congrats on the baby! May he/she be healthy and happy. Ever since I met my girlfriend Katie I have learned a lot about giving pleasure. Katie is very free-spirited and creative, and she is a trickster and a tease in bed, and sex with her is like a four course meal. And she keeps it fresh by pulling weird shit like after the foreplay and oral and we get to the penetration she will resist me just for kicks. Another time she dripped Bailey's Irish Cream all over me and licked it off (and took her time doing so). Another time she washed my feet with soap and a basin in a very light and ticklish way, and then sucked on each of my toes (I know it sounds sort of gross but it was very erotic). For kicks she might blow me while I'm talking on the phone with my Mom. Sometimes the lovemaking is totally about my pleasure like fellatio in the car or letting me do something she doesn't really get into that much. Other times she is the focus and gets a two hour full body massage. By contrast Kerry isn't actually a very good lover. I try to put my all into it, and she doesn't usually seem to appreciate the extra work. She doesn't often go out of her way to pleasure me or run her hands appreciatively all over my body while we're having sex or just in bed naked together. I think people forget that men like foreplay too, and a woman who appreciates her physically by putting hands on him throughout the day and fondling him will score big. At the end of the day we all want to know that we are loved, enjoyed, and needed by other people. If we don't get that sort of thing from our mates then we really should bring it up in a discussion.
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Wow flattery will certainly get you anywhere with me. Thanks! Though it is hard to do it justice in mere sloppy awkward words. You really had to have been there. You know when having sex so many weird thoughts, fantasies, and feelings run through my mind that it's hard to remember or express in words what happens.
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I have a philosophy that a good man uses his hands and lips in bed more than his tool. Of course I like to think I am a fantastic lover because I enjoy foreplay more than the actual penetration part. Ever since I met my girlfriend Katie I have learned a lot about giving pleasure. Katie is very free-spirited and creative, and she is a trickster and a tease in bed, and sex with her is like a four course meal. And she keeps it fresh by pulling weird shit like after the foreplay and oral and we get to the penetration she will resist me just for kicks. Another time she dripped Bailey's Irish Cream all over me and licked it off (and took her time doing so). Another time she washed my feet with soap and a basin in a very light and ticklish way, and then sucked on each of my toes (I know it sounds sort of gross but it was very erotic). For kicks she might blow me while I'm talking on the phone with my Mom. Sometimes the lovemaking is totally about my pleasure like fellatio in the car or letting me do something she doesn't really get into that much. Other times she is the focus and gets a two hour full body massage. By contrast Kerry isn't actually a very good lover. I try to put my all into it, and she doesn't usually seem to appreciate the extra work. She doesn't often go out of her way to pleasure me or run her hands appreciatively all over my body while we're having sex or just in bed naked together. I think people forget that men like foreplay too, and a woman who appreciates her physically by putting hands on him throughout the day and fondling him will score big. At the end of the day we all want to know that we are loved, enjoyed, and needed by other people. If we don't get that sort of thing from our mates then we really should bring it up in a discussion. In the meantime...I will still hold out some bit of hope I can find a guy like you...for me! I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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I love your philosophy. I can only dream of ever having a partner as wonderful as you. It seems a bit of a challenge for you now to do what you can to please her, because for you that is a great deal of what turns you on and pleases you. I am wondering if at some point when you don't get enough of your needs met, will you move on? If you already know your needs aren't being met...why prolong the agony? If the child is yours...separating while child is very young is much easier then when they are older. Just passin' on some wisdom. In the meantime...I will still hold out some bit of hope I can find a guy like you...for me! So Kerry says I will be the baby's Godfather and since she is fond of my loving and optimistic personal theology, she wants me to provide spiritual guidance and emotional support for the baby. It is her plan at the moment that I will be a male role model and visit as much as I can. That is acceptable since I hope to have my own children if I can, and I believe I should not father a child if I do not have daily access and influence on their life. As for finding a man like me, I think it is impossible because there isn't a man like me in all the world. At the same time as I make that egotistical sounding statement because I am proud of my sensitivity and strength, you have to know that I am a deeply flawed person and I am certain you can find someone a lot less complicated for yourself. My only advice is to talk to everyone, every candidate for the position, and find someone that you click with and is caring, emotional, and passionate about the things in his life. Don't waste time with jerks and idiots who put you down. Redirect every ounce of your energy to finding that guy. I will bet money you see him at the grocery store and you don't know him because you haven't engaged him. Talk to everyone. I am not kidding about that. I am by nature a little reclusive but my friend Evan taught me that important rule when I separated from my wife. Talk to the guy at Starbuck's. Talk to the guy getting into the car next to you. I used to meet a new date once a year or less until he told me to look under every stone. He was right. So here you are on FriendFinder-x and a thousand guys are begging to talk to you. Some of those guys are awesome. Lots of them suck. But go and plumb those depths. Forgive a tiny bit of craziness. You will meet some decent guys.
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