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Blogs > rm_ganien > A Strange Bedfellow

Now, I've heard of Safe Sex, but...  

rm_ganien 51M
1237 posts
2/20/2012 12:17 am
Now, I've heard of Safe Sex, but...
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rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
2/20/2012 7:24 pm
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I dunno, I respect them for setting their boundaries, odd as those might be. It was a bit funny, and I didn't want to seem like I was objecting to it. Though I must admit it made fingering her seem like administering a gynecological exam, a bit weird.

I was surprised how much I could sense the warmth of her body through the gloves. It didn't detract much from the fun in any case.


39lawless 58F
6864 posts
2/21/2012 6:41 am

 Given that I have a medical fetish, that's hot...lol! I'm always fascinated at how people play and this particularly is interesting. I wonder how much different they acted because you were there vs. by themselves.

Nonetheless, I love the detail and the retelling of your adventures...good morning! xoxo
Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
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rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
2/21/2012 2:45 pm
    Quoting 39lawless:
    Given that I have a medical fetish, that's hot...lol! I'm always fascinated at how people play and this particularly is interesting. I wonder how much different they acted because you were there vs. by themselves.

    Nonetheless, I love the detail and the retelling of your adventures...good morning! xoxo
We did talk a great deal more than I mentioned in the narrative, about all kinds of things like religion, politics, work/jobs, outsourcing, travel, music, food, and I did compliment them where it occurred to me to do so. She was fond of performing oral on him and mentioned that they usually spent 3-4 hours every single day having sex. Sometimes multiple times a day. So I got the impression that it was like business as usual with the addition of a stray hand or finger here and there.


rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
2/21/2012 7:17 pm
    Quoting 39lawless:
    Given that I have a medical fetish, that's hot...lol! I'm always fascinated at how people play and this particularly is interesting. I wonder how much different they acted because you were there vs. by themselves.

    Nonetheless, I love the detail and the retelling of your adventures...good morning! xoxo
Oh and I never even considered the gloves might be fetish play of some kind. You would think they wanted me to wear a lab coat or something though, eh?


rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
2/23/2012 10:55 am
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I am so happy to hear from you! Thanks so much for reading.

I admire that you're willing to change your mind about bisexuality, and I'm flattered that you would admit that my writing had anything to do with it. Bless you.

After I got divorced, I started following my friend Evan's example and chatting up women everywhere I would go, and I often scored dates with people I would never have met through my social circle. I experimented with when it was appropriate to tell a woman that you're bisexual. I tried the first date several times, and got a chilling coldness that pretty much ruined the evening. I tried mentioning it after several dates, some before and some after having sex. In all cases it was the end of the dating relationship.

I would hazard a guess that bisexuality is about 95% unacceptable to women, based on about 20 dates and only my girlfriend Katie (after much struggling with it), accepting it. But Katie is a different animal from most women. Many women I've dated have a sort of fixed notion of what the perfect man is like, and if you diverge strongly from that notion, you are tossed out with the garbage. Katie is very fluid about these things, and I like how everything is a balancing act with her.

Personally I find bisexuality very attractive. I know from experience that two men can serve a woman a sexual feast, usually with a lot left to spare. The nice thing about this couple was, if she wanted a break and I jacked the guy, she was back in the action in about thirty seconds begging for more. It was very hot.

Admitting, of course, that one-on-one sex with my girlfriend is the best sex imaginable, I have to say a Bi MFM is the next best thing. There is a chemistry of balance and (though sadly, not in this encounter), the ability for different combinations of partners to get the third off together, is unrelentingly orgasmic. I will offer that a Bi FMF might be interesting but I don't even know of someone who's done it. Is it yet better? I still think the answer would be no because in an FMF someone's always left out I suspect. With an MFM, holes are getting righeously used and everyone has a smile on their face.

I do hope you keep reading. I can't promise a lot of sex stories (things have slowed down a lot for me in the past year or so), but I am willing to be exhibitionistic with my brain and my thoughts.


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