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The threesome that wasn't... quite  

rm_ganien 51M
1237 posts
5/31/2012 6:56 am
The threesome that wasn't... quite

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39lawless 58F
6864 posts
6/1/2012 6:32 am

I used to think that you were a bit tetched for all this writing back and forth before meeting someone and often not even knowing what they looked like. I'm starting to get it though...it's not my usual MO but I'm now in the midst (well, I've seen pics of him) with the crush and I'm getting the appeal. I also realize that I've done it a couple times in the past with fabulous results.

One of the things that I love about your writing with Lia and with Charlie is the emotional connection. To me, that's a vital component. Without it, the physical stuff is lacking. Oh sure, it doesn't always have to be deep - some of my favorite fun is with people I have a very fun, friendly, playful energy - but it's even better when it's this deep.

Play on and yea for you!!! And her. And her husband!

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
6/2/2012 5:57 am

    Quoting 39lawless:
    I used to think that you were a bit tetched for all this writing back and forth before meeting someone and often not even knowing what they looked like. I'm starting to get it though...it's not my usual MO but I'm now in the midst (well, I've seen pics of him) with the crush and I'm getting the appeal. I also realize that I've done it a couple times in the past with fabulous results.

    One of the things that I love about your writing with Lia and with Charlie is the emotional connection. To me, that's a vital component. Without it, the physical stuff is lacking. Oh sure, it doesn't always have to be deep - some of my favorite fun is with people I have a very fun, friendly, playful energy - but it's even better when it's this deep.

    Play on and yea for you!!! And her. And her husband!
For me, sexuality is so much in the mind and people who are beautiful inside are always beautiful outside, and as a result I really want to serve them sexually. So yes, even my casual connections have to have a certain connection, and it is a vital component for me as well. I am capable of pleasuring people in group situations, knowing nothing about them.

These deep connections, though... difficult to handle. I find myself thinking and daydreaming of Lia and Charlie way too much and I'm not sure what to do with that. I am unaccustomed to my secondary partners being in my thoughts all the time, of having things remind me of them and feeling a cascade of love from that.


rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
6/2/2012 9:44 pm

    Quoting Bang_44DDD:
    I really love how you put your reader right there in the room with you and take us along on this amazing experience with you. You are such a wonderful read on a Saturday afternoon!
Aw, thanks! I like to put it down so I can relive it later if I forget... like I could!

and bless you for reading it through!


rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
6/5/2012 6:43 am

    Quoting  :

I think for online meetings I always must have some sense of the "click" to even consider meeting, because there is a price to pay in terms of attention to Katie, when I go on any adventure.

And what you say about my writing... oh, flattery will get you everywhere! Thanks so much for the kind words.


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