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rm_ganien 51M
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7/19/2013 3:08 pm
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btdt2009 57F  
1466 posts
7/19/2013 3:25 pm

 I am so very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family


rm_ganien replies on 7/21/2013 8:35 am:
Thank you so much for commenting and having us in your thoughts. I am glad that you came to this post and blog and hope to see you again.

rm_kitten435 48F
5179 posts
7/19/2013 7:05 pm

 I have to say, losing a child is one of the hardest things we will ever do in our life time, this is a loss like no other....I can sympathise with your story of loss, grief and such heavy sore aching hurt...I lost my son at the age of 4 to cancer and like you, loved him more than life itself...I rest easy safe in the knowledge that he is no longer in pain and no matter how much I loved him, I didn't want him to be in pain and suffering any longer...these are special children, maybe even to special for this world. my little Andrew will now be pain free wherever he is. I hope watching down on me saying, oh gosh here she goes again...as will your precious darling Mary.

I can not say it ever goes away, it doesn't but we do find a way of coping, after all coping is what we do...remember the good times and keep them close to your heart...thinking of you and your wife at this time...and sending much love peace and the hope you someday find some happy place and Mary is still part of it with you both, because she will always be your special baby girl xxxx


rm_ganien replies on 7/21/2013 9:32 am:
Thank you so much for your wonderful comment. Somehow knowing that you have experienced these feelings yourself, and have chosen to share them here, has touched me deeply. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your precious Andrew. I am sort of glad to hear that this feeling never really goes away, because though it is sad, I do enjoy the way the feelings of loss lead me to recall those happy memories that otherwise I might have forgotten.

I am so honored by your visit here.

ruek04 42F
11 posts
7/19/2013 8:10 pm

 I am so, so very sorry. I wish you and katie peace as you cope with this unimaginable loss.


rm_ganien replies on 9/18/2013 6:44 pm:
Thank you so much for your kind words. I was happy to read them and I am glad to see your comments here again!

We have been finding peace and lots of joy, and frankly it's the happy memories that are the most vivid in our minds.

foreverfree123 60M
435 posts
7/19/2013 8:52 pm

 OMG
I am so terribly sorry to hear this.
I know that words cannot express the pain that you are both feeling, and nothing that any of us say sounds sufficient to help you either.
Please know that my love and prayers are with both you and your wife at this dreadful time, and I pray that you will each find the strength to get you through this in some way.
Much love and prayers,
Sue xxx


demonicsexkitten 49F
10694 posts
7/19/2013 10:29 pm

 I'm so sorry to hear this


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
7/20/2013 12:50 am

 Very sorry for you lost of a love one.



Butterfly Poems for the Loss of a Child

A butterfly lights beside us like a sunbeam
And for a brief moment its glory
and beauty belong to our world
But then it flies again
And though we wish it could have stayed...
We feel lucky to have seen it.

Author Unknown
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sexysixties2 106F
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39750 posts
7/20/2013 6:05 am

 I am so sorry. I am crying as I type. It is almost 40 years now since I held my baby son and watched him die in my arms.

You will never forget Mary....she will come into your thoughts every day.....I pray that you and Katie are granted the strength you need now and always.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


TheRedheadinHeat 62F
9294 posts
7/20/2013 7:26 pm
    Quoting  :
I wish I could be as eloquent. My heart breaks for you and Katie. I can't even put into words. . . . . . . .
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rm_ganien replies on 7/27/2013 6:38 am:
I know how you feel but I find you are always eloquent and your words are carefully and thoughtfully chosen. Hearing from you is more than enough consolation for me. Thank you!

rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
7/21/2013 6:59 am

 Wow, am I ever overwhelmed by the love and support that you have all have taken the time to express here.

Personally I never can find the right words to say to someone who has suffered a great loss, I feel like my words can't possibly be good enough to be helpful at all.

I admire that all of you can find those words. Thank you.

I debated for a long time whether I should make this post or just move on, because I didn't want to burden people with my troubles. But I think I've established in the blog that I'm willing to share my authentic thoughts and feelings here.

Thanks for all your love! It warms my heart.


39lawless 58F
6864 posts
7/27/2013 4:35 am

 Oh man...I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you and Katie are going through - just that it must be agonizing. Please know that I'm with you in spirit and sending both of you all the healing, peaceful feelings I have. Much love.
Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


rm_ganien replies on 7/27/2013 6:34 am:
Thank you, love. Your thoughts and prayers mean the world to me!

playful64more 60F
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1425 posts
7/27/2013 8:51 pm

 So very sorry for your and Katies loss of little Mary. Hugs!!!
I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)


rm_ganien replies on 9/18/2013 6:48 pm:
Thank you, my heart is still warmed by your thoughts and good wishes.

nutmegsrevenge 43F

9/8/2013 9:03 pm

 So sorry my dear, I am thinking of you. Many hugs!
Always and in All Ways,

Nutmeg


rm_ganien replies on 9/18/2013 6:46 pm:
Your thoughts and hugs mean so much to me! Thank you!

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