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Myth: People who have casual sex are selfish sluts.  

1playfulgal 46F
4633 posts
5/26/2005 10:03 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Myth: People who have casual sex are selfish sluts.


People who have casual sex are usually the same people who have relationships, just not at the same time. Maybe they're between lovers, or on vacation, or just want a few hours of pleasure. Maybe, like me, they haven't found the right person yet. If all you're doing is fucking, it's OK if your paramour's slept with half of the city, is too busy to make plans, is in another relationship, or just wouldn't make good boyfriend or girlfriend material. Those who've never had casual sex were probably either lucky enough to have a constant stream of steady mates, or valiantly overcame their urges to go home with the latest hottie they met in a bar.

1playfulgal 46F
1828 posts
5/27/2005 9:15 am

thank you EroticallyRapt that is exactly the way i think...why bother hiding who we are...


rm_meatn3 59M

5/27/2005 10:44 am

If the existence of a relationship is the measure of how wrong or right someone is in their search of sexual fulfillment, does that mean I would be undeserving of having a family just because I studied how a another family gets along so well w/ ea. other? You know, should I be disowned? It's a relationship. So is reader to writer, and I've been whoring around all kinds of other blogs. Had to confess. Just playing devil's advocate. ;^) I investigate sexual questions that exist in a current relationship OUTSIDE of it only because they aren't getting answered by THAT person. If I get the answers and bring their worth to my existing relationship, did I use an outside party for some ass (like a big ol' slut that I am) or did I discreetly preserve a relationship that hit a little snag? Sluts just want to get a pickle tickle, no other thoughts about it.


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
5/27/2005 11:46 am

I am never casual about sex, it is too important. But some lovers are short term and some longer term. It all depends on the needs of the parties.


1playfulgal 46F
1828 posts
7/30/2005 9:09 am

ike401

i'm glad that is the case becasue if we were all the same what a boring world we would live in...

Variety is the spice of life...


1playfulgal 46F
1828 posts
10/18/2005 11:14 pm

1sylvester

casual sex can be very therapudic....

helps me to relax on a stressful day without having all the entanglements og a relationship...

kisses


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