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Sugaring: Sensualman's Take
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Sugaring: Sensualman's Take Brief relationship explanation from Wikipedia: "A is a person who receives cash, gifts or other financial and material benefits in exchange for company. It usually includes sex or intimacy. The paying partner is typically wealthier and older. A 's partner is often referred not as a trick or a john but a , while the less-common female counterpart is a "sugar mama" Being an older guy, I occasionally encounter a woman that is looking for a<b> sugar daddy </font></b>(FYI, I have never, ever met a  quot;sugar mama"). I have met women, both under deceitful circumstances, that were looking for "compensation" one way or another-- one told me at our first (and last) meeting at a coffeeshop, the other woman seduced me and tried to fulfill every desire I ever expressed. I later learned why (for a -by- description, see my blog post "One Night Stands").If you are "Sugaring", i don't condemn you-- I get it that many younger women (and even older) have a need feel financially secure and maintain a certain lifestyle, and see a as a means an end. Conversely, a well--do older guy in that role can essentially "buy" sex with most physically desirable women available. However, no matter where I was at financially, I personally could never consent being a SD for one major reason: Trust. I only welcome into my life those that value chemistry, compassion, caring, laughter, and open sexuality. Anything else is secondary, and perhaps irrelevant. In a SD arrangement, the man may only be of value as good long as the "gifts" that keep coming to his SB. I could never give myself to a woman in an ongoing sexual relationship that I knew or suspected deep down inside didn't necessarily like me as a person, but tolerated me inside her just to get a car, rent paid, $400 Botox injections, and would go missing if I fell short on any provision. And that's not to mention "Stuff" happens in life that may not have anything to do with sexual performance -- Recession, job loss, accident, illness, etc. One major life change is all that is needed to make a "sugaring"relationship bittersweet.  |
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Happy New Year 2020 to all my friends and readers!
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I wonder if that's why so many young men look for older women? Hoping that 'cougar' is really a Sugar Mama. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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it takes all kinds to make up this world we live in. Its a supply n demand kinda arrangement. i think if both parties are upfront from the onset...and the rules are laid out....to me...its no different than master/sub contract~~
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I wonder if that's why so many young men look for older women? Hoping that 'cougar' is really a Sugar Mama.
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I thought this post was going to be about something completely different.... 
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I thought this post was going to be about something completely different....
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Tried to fix the missing words, ugh!
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