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mc_justmc 63M

10/16/2016 5:43 am

Oh Damn! I just went through a similar event. With the help of the internet I found a woman I lived with 30 yrs ago. I sent her a letter to the address I had asking how she was, did she remember me, along with some old pics of us. Nothing. then a month later I got a letter. We got together on Faceplace, she looked the same as I remembered so long ago. She started calling me every evening as she walked to and from the store to get her 4 pack of tall boys. I soon realized she was calling me when she was away from her live-in- partner, behind his back, which was why WE broke up. She started right into the " I love you, I miss you, I want to come live with you" and I couldn't run fast enough. I finally told her I was seeing someone and she backed off. Sometimes you can't get back to where you once were, and sometimes that's a good thing.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/16/2016 5:53 am

Congratulations on quitting smoking!!!

Please don't take this to be mean.... But I think maybe you've come on to strong and scared him away. If it was meant to be, give him time and space. In order for him to miss your presence, and attention, you need to take it away.


txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
10/16/2016 6:17 am

i understand what your saying, an how it can happen... i once thought an felt the same way...but after spending sometime together i knew myself , i had changed, she had changed, an there was nothing there nor nothing about her i wanted again... we could be friends as we shared something at one time, but that was it. as the old saying ..." you can go back , but you cant ever go home again" You have said in your blog all the signs that its not there anymore.. now you just have to accept it, being that your not in a relationship with anyone lets you mind think maybe you an him can have it again... take him as a friend now that you made contact an let it be just that, if he had wanted more or you in his life he would have let it be known.
AS for your back an neck... i had a global lumbar recontruction a few yrs ago.. i have alot of nerve damage (on the job accident) i use to use ice, an pills to take away the pain or make it manageable , to stop the spasms nothing seemed to work ecept ice once in awhile. A nieghbor gave me a lidocanine patch.. within minutes it stops the pain, STOPS the spasms .. incredible!!!! It is a perscription tho...but now they make a cream you rub on that has lidocaine in it... you should try it... it maybe the thing you are looking for to help in pain management... if it works for you as it did for me you will be amazed.


MrHung2Deep 52M
19 posts
10/16/2016 6:20 am

Love is crazy, love is strong, love is happiness, love is sadness, love is dangerous, love is perfect, love is beautiful, but mainly love is complicated! Love is the single most powerful emotion we have, more so then hate or fear or anger because love really can change all of those emotions. We do many things out of love both good and bad, and we ignore a lot of things just because we are blinded by love. I know all too well the pain and scar of a broken heart so I can understand where you are coming from and can understand your need for closure and your need to reconnect. But perhaps he's simply in an emotion place as a single father with a serious health condition where he just don't want to let anyone else in.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
10/16/2016 6:27 am

What an incredible post!! You are to be commended for allowing us into your life and letting us listen to your pain, your heartbreak, and your angst.
Please stay away from the smoking as long as you can. IF you have insurance, see if it will pay for acupuncture for your pain and for the smoking- it really works.
Hope you will continue to write in this amazing manner. You are very special!!

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Nola7011 67M
1021 posts
10/16/2016 6:44 am

Even if you two hooked up again, it wouldn't last.

People are strange when you're a stranger."


txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
10/16/2016 6:47 am

    Quoting  :

the cream i told you about is a over the counter cream no perscription.... be nice if you could see the 2 surgens i had... #1 rated in houston.. i met people from all over the world in their offices that had things fixed , other doctors missed or had tried to fix... i know a few other things that may work as well... YES non sexual...lol email me an i will tell you, as they are lengthy.. an came from my rehab at Baylor


MrHung2Deep 52M
19 posts
10/16/2016 7:02 am

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And a beautiful storm you are. But remember this, no matter how bad the storm, and I've been through some doozies (hurricane katrina and this recent great flood of louisiana) , after it passes there is always a certain clarity in dealing with the aftermath. So go ahead an keep shaking things up beautiful, because just like the snow globe things always fall back into place


Nola7011 67M
1021 posts
10/16/2016 7:14 am

My 10/15 post re: Janis was pretty positive. At least you thought so.

People are strange when you're a stranger."


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
10/16/2016 7:19 am

First off - congrats on quitting smoking - keep up the good work.

And secondly, that the full moon, and your period, still come (regularly) at the same time is a GOOD thing, right? Soon enough, they won't and THEN the REAL fun begins!

Your issue with Bill seems to be a lack of closure - but it surely seems that is not going to change. Hate to say it, but time to move on. Perhaps in accepting that, you'll be open to finding someone that truly DOES appreciate all you have to offer.



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kzoopair 72M/71F
25831 posts
10/16/2016 9:41 am

"So folks, why on earth have I lost my ever loving mind to a man I lost and left 26 years ago?"

If it were easy to explain we wouldn't have poets and songwriters.

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GimmeAThrill 55M  
24635 posts
10/16/2016 9:56 am

I am generally loathe to comment about such emotional turmoil, as all anyone can really offer are comforting cliches, but I'm making an exception. It seems to me that nothing about this is about him. What has he done or said to cause these emotions so many years later? So it just seems that it is all about what went on and wasn't resolved and what is going on with you. The answers, and your happiness, depend on nobody else.

Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.


topherific 61M
5209 posts
10/16/2016 9:40 pm

without closure there is always the 'what if' and that is kinda like hope but not really, hang in there pretty lady...sending a big mental hug(and good stiff grabbing of your sexy bum


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
10/17/2016 8:52 am

I feel your pain...I really do...Not just because, like yourself, I live with chronic pain every day but also because I have also found it hard to 'let go'.
This was in the days when the internet was just a baby, or even an embryo?


topherific 61M
5209 posts
10/17/2016 11:34 am

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cool good to know...no worries here


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