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I should stop worrying  

xdrearydancerx 35F
627 posts
1/13/2016 8:20 pm
I should stop worrying


I should stop thinking about things or getting nervous every time I start talking to a guy I like. They never want to date me anyway. I shouldn't sweat over it anymore. I can't imagine ever meeting a guy I like who actually wants to go out with me. I'm also afraid of what people think of me, especially family members. "Beggars can't be choosers. That's why she is single."

It's always annoyed me how normal people just met someone they like and start dating. It's just normal to them. They don't even have to give it much thought. For me, it is such a big deal and I can't do it. It would be the biggest surprise if I ever ended up dating anyone for three months.

powercaps716 67M  
83116 posts
1/13/2016 8:36 pm

Take your time, if it's meant to be it will happen. Don't worry yourself


Mrmattman 64M  
681 posts
1/13/2016 8:38 pm

you'll find someone who's just right for you. It takes time.... best wishes


WhyteGuy4DRKlips 56M
109 posts
1/13/2016 9:38 pm

because it IS normal, for two consenting like-minded adults with common interests, to meet ..... and date.

you just need to find that OTHER adult and i would say , just keep it moving until you do ..... point and click.

choose. meet.... not the right vibe? not much in common? not "feelin" it? most of all --- not treating as you feel you deserve to be treated?

NEXT!

I'm sure it sucks to hear "just be patient" all the time, but it's true I think ...the HARDER you look and try to force things, the worse the gene pool looks ....

literally, dont over think it just do .... and definitely dont think or worry about ANYONE ELSE but yourself, as that is really the only thing you need to focus on to find happiness on some level .....


danteszippo 59M

1/28/2016 4:58 am

You should stop worrying. What's the worst that can happen? Shrug it off and think positive... it can't hurt.


danteszippo 59M

1/30/2016 4:02 am

As far as I'm concerned you are attractive, you have above average intelligence and your body is invitingly sexy. I recall when I'd see you on cam...you had those Betty Page style bangs, you looked very sexy...

Your worse enemy seems to be yourself at times, you undermine things before they get off the ground. Too bad you don't live near me, love to just hang out, relax, talk and sort out all those self defeating demons that seem to haunt you. I could imagine enjoying time with you and figuring this all out. Sometimes you just need a person to bounce ideas and thoughts off of, do you have anyone close that you talk with? it does help things work themselves out sometimes.


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