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Well, I knew that would happen  

xdrearydancerx 35F
627 posts
2/3/2016 1:40 pm
Well, I knew that would happen


So let me make another post about the same guy in "I want him to be my boyfriend" blog. When I started talking to him, I knew he wasn't that into me, as I mentioned he contacted me infrequently. I just thought, "I'm going to check his facebook one day, very soon, in a couple of months and see that he is dating someone." That's exactly what happened today. He posted a new relationship status and I couldn't help from crying when I saw it. This is so embarrassing for me that guys I talk to end up dating other women while I am never dating anyone. I am always single. I think I am probably the worst case of beggars can't be choosers. It's not that I don't settle for people I'm not into because I think I can do better. I can't get anyone I like so I prefer just to stay single. I really hope I have a heart attack and d i e in my 30s or something. I couldn't stand a long life of being single into my 80s.

I don't care how<b> creepy </font></b>and pathetic I sound to stalk someone's facebook and get upset that they have a girlfriend. I also felt pretty bad that this guys always seemed to have girlfriends. When I used to talk to him, he mentioned being in a relationship for five years. I can't even get anyone to go on a few dates with me. From what he described, he always seemed to be dating someone. Last year he dated someone for six months. I didn't have any boyfriends to talk about because I've never had any. I wonder if guys ever notice this. All I have to talk about are guys I went on dates with and that it didn't work out. I wonder if some people can ever guess that I have never dated anyone. I would never outright tell a guy this unless he asked me or we actually end up dating for a few months.

TALL_GUY_IN_STL 49M  
102 posts
2/3/2016 1:57 pm

Feelings HAVE to be reciprocated. Having strong feelings for somebody when they don't feel the same about you SUCKS. It happens to EVERYONE, yours truly included. Don't despair. Somebody will fall for you and you'll fall for them AT THE SAME TIME. That is my personal guarantee.


rm_DarkRider_40 63M
1 post
2/3/2016 1:58 pm

Twice your age and been alone for over ten years
Is it really worth worrying about someone that does not worry about you ?
Simple but effective words "I would rather be alone than unhappy"
Live your own life to the best of your ability, nobody gets out alive


tedbear472 76M
807 posts
2/3/2016 2:28 pm

My GrandPa always said "don't put all of your eggs in one basket and that there are always bigger and better fish in the sea." Don't continue dwelling on someone that is not doing the same to you. Keep looking and fishing. You can't catch that trophy if you don't keep trying.


love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
2/3/2016 2:33 pm

Wild as hell


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
2/3/2016 3:06 pm

Give it time, what's the rush ?

I've been single myself for 8 years now, don't much like it, but that's the way it is.


powercaps716 67M  
83116 posts
2/3/2016 8:52 pm

. Keep your chin up ,if you don't succeed the first time try ,try again . Love doesn't always come the first time around, dating and meeting people is like a job ,it takes hard work to get into a relationship it takes hard work to keep one. It's always good to find someone that has something in common with you also is a good thing when you have someone that has a similar interest .


powercaps716 67M  
83116 posts
2/3/2016 8:54 pm

. Don't go out and get into a relationship that has no meaning as you get older you will come to understand this. No one wants to be alone but sometimes it happens keep looking my friend never settle .


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