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Don't put all your eggs in one basket
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Don't put all your eggs in one basket Don’t put all your eggs in one basket, date around, and look for someone else. Frankly, it annoys me when people keep telling me this, no offense. They act like it is so easy to go with different people at the same time. When I meet people who are stupid, have no manners, no common sense, extremely rude, not attractive (to me), don’t return my interest, etc, THERE IS NOT THAT MUCH TO CHOOSE FROM. I guess for normal and attractive people it is not that hard. I however, do not have the upper hand when it comes to dating because I have a hard time getting dates. I think I am a very bad case of beggars can’t be choosers. Sometimes I will be texting with a few guys at the same time but I have never dated different people at the same time. A lot of guys just don’t ask me out. Also, I am a one time dater, so I have rarely seen the same guy more than once. Most of the time I’m just not attracted to them. Another thing is when I actually come across guys I would be interested in, it often occurs weeks or months apart. Last year I only met five guys I really liked and I didn’t even meet them in person. So there was no dating involved there at all! Lol But they all happened at different times. In person, I met like eleven guys and I was only attracted to two of them. I’m not sure what I was thinking at the time of why I met most of those guys. But yeah, I guess I am slow with dating? To me the only way I would go on tons of dates is if I accepted invites from gross, unattractive, and stupid men. There is no point in meeting people who you know you aren’t going to like just to have dates though. Lol You always hear people complain about how much dating sucks and how difficult it is, which I wholeheartedly agree with. I have never enjoyed it. Yet, there are people dating so many at once. I am wildly impressed by this because I can’t even imagine just dating one person who I actually like, so something like five people who I’m attracted to and find exciting would blow my mind. For me, if I meet someone ideal who I really like right away, I would just like to date them and stop looking around for other people, and I would like them to feel the same way about me. Maybe I just think that because I am the ugly girl with not much quality to choose from so I will snatch the first good one that comes along? Lol |
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Mariam, You are very attractive & beautiful to a point! You underestimate your attractiveness & how pretty you really are! Have an awesome day in Texas as we have a Blizzard in Denver! Miss seeing you on cam! Coyote
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There's also an old saying, Rome wasn't built in a day !! Nothing happens overnight or months or so on, kind of like a future fate type thing. Just be patient, your time will come.
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 i agree with all the others, nice,sweet, and good looking all wrapped up in one sexy package...please be patient and your time will come
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Thinking that you're not attractive is self fulfilling prophecy. Just like women, men are attracted to confidence. I've got no reason to come on here and tell you things I don't believe. Truth is you are very pretty, and have a natural glow to you. The question I would pose is this, what type of guys are you attracted to, and what do they like? Are you that girl? I say this in terms of you've got an alternative/gothic sort of style going on and if you are attracted to preppy chiseled jock types, then maybe trying a different approach would work. I don't know I am just using that as an example. What are the girls like that the guys you like seem to go for. For all the haters that would step up and say you shouldn't change anything about you, you just be you, remember its about what you want. Like I said its just an example as it could be a number of reasons as to why you're not connecting with the guys your are interested in. But I can reassure of this.... its not because your unattractive, you're much prettier than you give yourself credit for. But first impressions are big, and just like guys have to adapt to attract women, women can do it to attract men. Just because you change the way a product is packaged, doesn't mean the product has changed.
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