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While I'm making observations  

travellerabc123 54M
913 posts
9/22/2012 9:53 am
While I'm making observations


This is a little more of a global observation. I'm not sure how to say this, but how about...

Everyone has stuff going for them.

This is gonna be a nerdy analogy, but quite a few<b> role playing </font></b>games and computer games give you so many attribute points. Unlife life, you can apportion them as you see fit. For example, the game Dungeons and Dragons (I haven't played in years) had you roll dice to determine your character's "abilities"

Strength
Intelligence
Wisdom
Dexterity
Charisma
Constitution

The idea was that you would be strong in some things and weak in others. It's the human condition. You would then play your character appropriately, and the fun was supposed to be in "role playing" that character.

So why do I drag all that out?

It just seems to me that I see a lot of blogs that lament the things that they are missing rather than celebrating what they have. As they say, the grass is always greener on the other side. But if you read enough blogs, eventually you see both sides and realize neither is that green and neither is that black. There are people who are bothered too much and people who aren't bothered enough. There are people who want relationships and people who want OUT of relationships. There are people who are really funny and smart and worried about their looks. There are very pretty people who are really ugly inside. There are people looking for things but have the luxury of others protecting them and supporting them. There are others who are on the razor's edge and have no problem finding what the others are seeking.

I guess what I'm trying to say in a broader way is that we should all count our blessings and be thankful for what we have. If you are reading this, there is a good chance that you are watching my blog or I am watching yours. I wouldn't be watching yours if I didn't think you were a pretty cool person, and someone who has lots of reasons to be proud and to hold your head up high. Embrace the person that you are.

Embrace the suck


rm_cocokitty66 58F
3276 posts
9/22/2012 11:36 am

you are a surprise and delight sometimes

.."...and then God created the orgasm, so women can moan even when they are happy"- Tantra


travellerabc123 54M
3989 posts
9/22/2012 7:42 pm

just sometimes?

Embrace the suck


travellerabc123 54M
3989 posts
9/22/2012 7:43 pm

    Quoting  :

sure, but unfortunately my arms aren't long enough

Embrace the suck


hotmamabear 60F  
356 posts
9/23/2012 9:29 pm

Back at you, my friend


gottaring 52F
15850 posts
9/27/2012 6:41 am

I had to come back to this one a few times before commenting...You make some very valid points.

I know my bitching may come ff as pure vanity, but I think we all need a moment to wallow now and then. Eventually I pick myself up, dust myself off and go back to enjoying life. That 'down time' is often just what I need to regroup and realize that things aren't really so bad. In fact, if I look closely, I realize that they're pretty damn good after all .

Thanks for the reminder .

When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


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