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My grandfather's death and reflection on life.
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My grandfather's death and reflection on life. It took me a while to decide whether I would post this here. However, after thinking about it, I felt that this is one of the very few forums that would understand. My grandfather passed away a couple of weeks ago. No, I don't need to hear a lot of sorries and condolences because he honestly live a full life and did not like people feeling sorry for him. Anyway, there are two things that I gained from him: 1: Live life on your own terms. 2. Love, protect and provide for your family. Whether he agreed with what you did or not, he never judged. Him and my grandmother separated when I was too young to remember. He had approximately 15 . I remember talking to him and him telling me that the two things he loved were women and playing pool. LOL! And I must admit that even when he was considered a "senior citizen', he still had enough game to pull women that were young enough to be his or grand ! HAHAHAHAHA! I can remember 2 years ago when he was going in for lung cancer surgery. He had sex with a 28 year old woman! When my uncle asked what was he thinking, he said, "I am going under in the morning. In case I don't make it, I want this to be my last memory." He made it out of surgery but the doctor's analysis was that he would not live very long so they recommended that he be cared for by hospice personnel. When they arrived, he cursed them out and said, "I don't know you. I will just have my take care of me." For his eighty-first he didn't want to be taken out to dinner. Instead he went with one of my uncle's friends to a strip club that also had a pool table and didn't come home until around 5 or 6 in the morning. Earlier this year, he was diagnosed with a bladder tumor that was cancerous. They told him that he had about 6 months to live because they couldn't remove it. This was because they said that his heart was working at a 30 to 40% capacity. My father had asked him if he felt anxious or scared and he was like, "Hell Naw, I have lived a great life" The morning he died, he had just finished a game of pool and then sat down and passed away peacefully. I shall never forget this as long as I live and I hope that I can live my life as honorable as he did. When talking to my brother, he had a very profound thing to say about it. He said that our grandfather was a of God. I was a bit puzzled but then he explained, "The earth is a playground. What parent wouldn't want their to enjoy playing on the playground. In its own little way, it made sense. I, for one, intend on living my life on my own terms and having fun with playing on this playground called earth. I will do what intrigues and inspires me and hope all of you will do the same. Life IS a game and he who is happiest at the end wins. Strive and push for happiness my friends. We only pass this once and then it is game over. LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST! Life is a game. He who is happiest at the end wins! |
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Thanks Nikla2011! I am glad you enjoyed my story. He truly was a profound, one of a kind fun loving man. I will miss him. Life is a game. He who is happiest at the end wins!
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Beautiful post - thank you for sharing it !!!
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