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On cams and safe sex  

gunner4440 49M
1121 posts
6/24/2014 3:29 pm
On cams and safe sex

Greetings to all the members of the Perv Nation out here in the bloglands, and a special hello to the "dirty dozen"!
And now to the point f the post which believe it or not, is about sex. I hear that this is a sex site and have to post something sexy every so often before they ban me.
First of all, I'd like to salute anyone reading this who has been on cam. I'm a fan! So that begs the question, anyone ever thought of playing on cam? Is it an interesting concept or a no-no for you? I have thought it'd be interesting to do, but have never participated.
Now for the second part of the title, I am very pro<b> safe sex. </font></b>Yes, skin on skin is best no question. I have sampled both having been married for a decade and in a body fluid monogamous relationship in the lifestyle later. I bring my own condoms which fit and feel right for me, and yes I will have them around even if nothing happens, better to be prepared for something unexpected happening than being scared and regretful. I happen to think it is a respect thing. I respect you enough as a partner to care about your health and safety.
Well, that's my two cents worth. Just remember everyone, we are all in this thing called life together and not a single one of us is getting out alive. Play nice and help each other out. Take it easy, guns are cold.


Take it easy, guns are cold.


gunner4440 49M
2657 posts
6/24/2014 3:47 pm

    Quoting  :

And I've missed it every time! Of course I'm forced to be an "early to bed, early to rise" kind of guy. Well maybe the stars will line up right someday. Also, nice to see a member of the "dirty dozen" stopping by!

Take it easy, guns are cold.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
6/24/2014 5:06 pm

I use to cam frequently - until I changed from a desktop to a laptop. The laptop cam doesn't have enough flexibility in camera angles for my preference. I've never considered camming with a partner - cuz if I have a partner, I am NOT thinking of anything else!

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
6/24/2014 5:07 pm

BTW - You should keep a supply of NON latex condoms handy too. We see a lot of ladies with latex allergies in the gyn office.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


spudsy1000 50M
6594 posts
6/25/2014 6:06 am

Nah - I'm not a cammer...for which you should be eternally grateful!

As to the other part...I agree..it's all about respect

"A full blown basket of hash browns with a steaming cup of 'WTF?" on the side"

Enter my Lair: spudsy1000


MyNameIsKay 62F  
11887 posts
6/25/2014 6:09 am

I have only cammed with an FWB when we can't be together. Mostly he likes me to watch, but occasionally I've entertained him. I won't do this for someone that hasn't seen me in person first, so that leaves camming for the masses on this site off my to-do list for sure.

Swim...Bike...Done


AmericanBaronin 59F   
12250 posts
6/25/2014 8:39 am

i check my list to see if you are 'yellow'; if not, sometimes check the blog itself, just in case

as for the other did it once ages ago for someone at his request, thinking he had my face masked can't remember now, it was a bbw chat room, not on here, and evidently he had a few followers, couple of them bi like him...yeah I lived a bit of 'different' life here and there


gunner4440 49M
2657 posts
6/25/2014 4:37 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    BTW - You should keep a supply of NON latex condoms handy too. We see a lot of ladies with latex allergies in the gyn office.
Both are valid points, laptops do have their downsides. And I never thought of a latex allergy, thank you

Take it easy, guns are cold.


gunner4440 49M
2657 posts
6/25/2014 4:39 pm

    Quoting spudsy1000:
    Nah - I'm not a cammer...for which you should be eternally grateful!

    As to the other part...I agree..it's all about respect
Oh don't sell yourself short, I'm sure there are a bunch of ladies that would enjoy a quarter ton of spud on cam. Heck you may even start a new fetish!

Take it easy, guns are cold.


gunner4440 49M
2657 posts
6/25/2014 4:43 pm

    Quoting MyNameIsKay:
    I have only cammed with an FWB when we can't be together. Mostly he likes me to watch, but occasionally I've entertained him. I won't do this for someone that hasn't seen me in person first, so that leaves camming for the masses on this site off my to-do list for sure.
It is a useful tool for those who are apart, I have done that myself in the past. And as for entertaining the masses, I'm of the opinion, who would want to subject themselves to that?

Take it easy, guns are cold.


gunner4440 49M
2657 posts
6/25/2014 4:57 pm

    Quoting AmericanBaronin:
    i check my list to see if you are 'yellow'; if not, sometimes check the blog itself, just in case

    as for the other did it once ages ago for someone at his request, thinking he had my face masked can't remember now, it was a bbw chat room, not on here, and evidently he had a few followers, couple of them bi like him...yeah I lived a bit of 'different' life here and there
Well, BBW? Really? Ok, Whatever, I guess if you have to fit inside a box someone made. As for the bi guy, hey my gate doesn't swing that way but it'd make a MFM interesting to say the least! Oh and darn! I'd have loved to have seen that ages ago, I might have been really intimidated but still wouldn't have missed it!

Take it easy, guns are cold.


AmericanBaronin 59F   
12250 posts
6/28/2014 6:29 pm

    Quoting gunner4440:
    Well, BBW? Really? Ok, Whatever, I guess if you have to fit inside a box someone made. As for the bi guy, hey my gate doesn't swing that way but it'd make a MFM interesting to say the least! Oh and darn! I'd have loved to have seen that ages ago, I might have been really intimidated but still wouldn't have missed it!
eh, fishnet stockings and garters and all sorts of things...want to see a pic he took lol


gunner4440 49M
2657 posts
6/29/2014 11:15 am

    Quoting AmericanBaronin:
    eh, fishnet stockings and garters and all sorts of things...want to see a pic he took lol
Well it sounds almost like a Victoria's Secret show with a little more penetration. And sure, I'm intrigued at this point!

Take it easy, guns are cold.


gunner4440 49M
2657 posts
7/5/2014 12:25 pm

    Quoting  :

Well, the site is poorer for your absence I'm sure! I also agree wholeheartedly with you that it is a respect thing. I like to think it is a sign of being respectful and serious about a partner as a guy to be properly prepared for safe fun.

Take it easy, guns are cold.


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