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Preferences...how important are they?  

BALDnCHOCL8 47M  
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1/30/2012 2:26 pm
Preferences...how important are they?


As I began to type this I realized that this blog is actually 2 questions in one and you'll see what I mean as you read further...

So folks, tell me...how important are your preferences and would you bend the rules a little? We all have preferences when it comes to everything. And we learn them at a very early age. I have a saying that goes the only thing a skinny woman can do for me is... INTRODUCE me to her THICK girlfriend. LOL I have a preference for SHAPELY...BBW/CURVY/THICK/VOLUPTUOUS/RUBENESQUE women. Notice I said "shapely." I do realize that round is a shape, however it's not the one I'm looking for unless of course we're talking about [your] ass or breasts. With that being said, that does not mean I wouldn't give a thinner [or for that matter; a more round] woman a bly. [She] just isn't the 1st one I'd look at.

For some people [and it has been my observation that it's mostly women] certain preferences are absolute deal-breakers. Some people don't like smokers. I don't care if you smoke...just don't do it around me. Due to the nature of my occupation; I travel quite frequently. And when I travel to the Caribbean or Mexico; one of the things that I have to do at least once while I'm there is enjoy a Cuban cigar while sippin' on some cognac--JUST BECAUSE! This brings me to a response I received recently. I had a female on here reply to me [and this is her direct quote] I absolutely love and respect the way you came at me...most definitely different than others on this site! Unfortunately, I'm a tall woman looking for someone just as tall as I am or taller. Sorry.

I don't claim to be something that I'm not and tall is one of them. But correct me if I'm wrong we're all the same height lying down. LOL I have to admit, I had one of those WTF? moments when I read her reply. So lemme get this straight....you're going to pass on getting to know the intelligent man who has an advanced degree in Biolgy, is fluent in 3 languages, has a great sense of humor and whom you admittingly approached you in a manner no one else on this site has before; no less than a GENTLEMAN should--because he's not tall. But you'll give the guy who's 6'3", dumb as a brick and can't conjugate a verb the time of day.. SERIOUSLY? Maybe [she] can't handle the awkwardness of the situation but I love it. You see I'm not one of those [shorter] men who have a Napoleon complex and try to compensate by driving a big fancy car. I mean I drive what's considered a luxury vehicle but it's not a Ferarri. I'm CONFIDENT and comfortable in the skin I'm in. I used to date a full-figured model who is 6'1"<b> barefoot. </font></b>I used to make her wear her heels when we went out. Ohhhh, the looks we got. I wasn't blessed with height; but I was blessed elsewhere in the BIG department. Big BRAIN and Big DICK! I thought that's what women want--a man who can converse on a plethora of subjects other than sex and someone who can tickle their throat through their vagina. LMAO! I guess not. I look at it like oh well; her loss. So what say you...would you bend the rules on your preferences or are they rock solid?

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