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AFF in Retrospective  

SerenityLost2010 47F
5 posts
12/24/2009 5:50 pm
AFF in Retrospective


I have seen so many complaints from people (guys mostly) about how they have not met anyone from FriendFinder-x and whether or not it is a waste of time.

I cannot speak for all the ladies that use FriendFinder-x, but I for one am not all talk and am not looking for other women as one member suggested in a different post. I am certainly not looking for Mr. Right just Mr. Right Now

I have been back on FriendFinder-x for about a 6 weeks and have met several guys and have had a great time with them.

And yes, one has to be very selective. If you look at the statistics there are almost 113,000 guys versus the 13,000 women. That is a huge disadvantage to the guys. Especially with taking into consideration the number of hosts, bots and fakes.

That would mean a guy would have to have some extraordinary profile/ability/trait of some sort to attract more attention to their profile. You are going to have to stand out among the rest.

If I was to meet every single guy that showed interest, I would not have time to work or sleep for that matter.

I am not looking for someone that is perfect - I am not perfect, therefore why should I expect them to be.

Some annoyances and maybe a bit of insight for some:

I have a brain and if a guy cannot write me a message in full complete sentences, can you imagine what type of conversation we would have in person?

Some guys are just crude with their pick up lines. Even though this is a sex site, we are still ladies and should be treated as such.

I love a cocks just like the next woman, but is it really necessary to have every single picture a picture of a cock?
I'll give a example guys can relate to - I like to check out cars online before going in to test drive but I'd like to see more of a car than just the engine before deciding whether or not that is the car I want to test drive. I want to see the whole car
It doesn't have to be a face pic - but make it different and eye-catching. I am sure you'll see an increase in profile views.

More rants and raves to come later.........

scstud03 55M  
39 posts
12/28/2009 8:43 pm

well said. Most guys suck and give us all a bad name. What part of SC r u in?


Dartagnan0072 52M

2/5/2010 2:59 pm

I agree with you as well. In the past few years I have met some very nice women on this site.


Dartagnan0072 52M

3/6/2010 8:23 pm

We need to get together again soon.


Dartagnan0072 52M

4/4/2010 5:34 pm

IM me when You get a chance Serenity


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