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Curious
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Curious I am here getting over a break up...Just been reading blogs and responding to those who have written me....I know I should be over it by now.....he is married and I am single. My question is how can a person go back with someone knowing you are just a number to them now.......not exclusive in a relationhip. Is this common today? Is open relationships something others are content with? I still want him and what we had...it was the best. I am not ready to move on with others yet. I am interested one day in meeting with couples for a threesome just not yet. Not interested in being with another married man at all.....or younger men. I do have an insatable sex drive when I am ready for the right man who wants me.....and not just for sex. Just trying to figure things out.....  |
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cherish the past......use it to build up yourself and you will emerge as a new butterfly
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8/27/2011 11:56 am |
i'm interest in hearing from you is there a anyway to contact you or you contact me
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5/22/2011 12:13 pm |
just wanted to say hi and hang in there
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Best of luck to you in finding what you want, what you need, and what you deserve. 
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3/31/2010 6:19 pm |
Just eliminate any drama and have fun I say....
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so true, thank you
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2/18/2010 12:31 pm |
Been there, didn't think I'd get through the next day but you do. Move on, he has. I loved my ex right till the end but there was no way she wanted it to work. Best of luck to you hdglide2ride post 2201873
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2/18/2010 12:29 pm |
Been there, didn't think I'd get throught the next day but you do. Move on, he has. I loved my ex right till the end but there was no way she wanted it to work. Best of luck to you hdglide2ride
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The guy is the one who is losing in your situation. Chalk it up as a great experience, giving you insight as to what you are now looking for. Take your time and who knows a great guy will fall in place. Knowing how to "love" as a friend is quite different from actually "Loving that Special Someone". Can have many friends, but only one Special Love.
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write some, and comment on those that you are reading... It gives others an insight into who you are far more than any profile ever can
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Take some time to find yourself too.................
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1/13/2010 6:27 am |
love to chat with you sometime
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Thank you, I think we are capable of loving more than one even if we only love one sexually. I will always wish he loved me as he once said he did, but its obvious he never will.....I know my love never dimished for him.......just have to find a way to move on with someone who appreciates a woman who would give her heart fully and be faithful giving him anything he desired.
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1/12/2010 1:23 pm |
I think thats the problem all relationships have to deal with.Jealuosy and ownershjp.People have always confused wanting (sexually)and loving.The old fashioned notion of loving unconditionally I believe is as true now as it ever was.If your truly in love you should be able to tell your partner of your needs .All of them.If you cant express yourself to your partner openly then I believe theres something wrong with your relationship.
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I to had a breakup(about 18 months)and it is hell. I try each day to move on. I have met a few woman but its just not he same. I hope time heals but it is very difficult. I do know what your going through. Good luck.
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My question is how can a person go back with someone knowing you are just a number to them now.......not exclusive in a relationship. Is this common today? Is open relationships something others are content with? I began my sexually active life in the 1960's - free love. None of my partners were ever 'just a number' - they were all loved for themselves, what they could bring to the relationship and life. Like many, I am a firm believer that we have the capability to love more than one at a time. How many others believe this I do not know. I also know many who do not believe this. Finding those who believe as you do, that is the trick.
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Open realtionships are great! IF they are void of jealousy!
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