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Where have all the gentlemen gone?
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Where have all the gentlemen gone? I am fairly new to this site, since last august, have had thousands of views of me, countless flirts, hotlists and e-mails as I am sure all the other women have also had. I slowly enhanced my profile and pic's as I got more comfortable (braver) with the site. What really get's me is the crudeness and the lack of respect the majority of men seemingly afford us. I would think that one should have at least a membership level better than standard, so they could view one's profile and pic's. If one does not want to include a pic on his profile, at least send one if you decide to e-mail us, as some physical attraction is desirable, a current one please. Should we agree to meet for coffee and a get to know one another chat, please show up on time. I have been stood up a few times,(head gamers?), not a pleasant experience and a complete waste of time.I realize that there is bound to be some embellishment in one's profile, I suppose a little is ok, but honesty is the best way to go. Please be aware that I do put safe guards in place before agreeing to an encounter, an absolute for any women. For all you men out there please be courteous and respectful, for the real gentlemen I applaud you and many thanks |
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2/20/2010 10:47 am |
love to chat with you sometime
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Good advice Have a great weekend Rapts This is not meant to offend any one in any way.     
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2/20/2010 2:59 pm |
Unfortunately a site like this will always be littered with all sorts of creeps, weirdo's, players, desperado's & the like. They are an embarrassment to those of us who are genuine & also gentlemen, but they do make it easy for you to filter them out & sift through so that you can find the good ones! As for not showing up to an arranged meet - I think that is despicable! Especially when its an opportunity with a sexy lady like you Rapture10! Too difficult for me to fathom!
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2/21/2010 5:26 am |
Nice to see you here! Just like other dating sites this place has it's share of people who wish to abuse the system. No only you girls have problems here as we men get swarmed by Ghana girls looking for a way out of there country. While I have been typing this I have already had six alerts from them. I would just like to say there are some good people here just trying to get to know each other. It official you have had a comment from Horny 196364 he gets everybody. Brian.
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2/22/2010 6:35 am |
Well thought out and really basic and simple courtesy are not really forgotten. It is that from early school on now most places are actually afraid if they insist on prpoer behavior, standards of conduct, etc. they are often in jepordy! I have experienced families more concerned that their kids advance, not that they learn; more interested in how things appear than in are they real. Sad but true!
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1 post 3/2/2010 7:59 pm |
Please check my profile out. "ilikesailing" Please contact me ASAP.
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3/7/2010 12:19 pm |
what a wonderful woman. wish i lived closer.
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Rather understandable precautions on your part for meeting some one It is after all the internet so you never really know who you might be meeting. It is however more than a little surprising on my part personally that some one who would go through the efforts to arrange a meeting for coffee would then simply not show up. Completely strange behavior. If there were problems in making the rendezvous a quick email to let you know would be the least that would be expected. As for rudeness that is simply inexcusable. There is no reason at all to be crude in emailing but as I gather from your posting such is not all that uncommon occurrence. I suspect it is the easier option for many to use vulgarity rather than to send a well written response. Anyway the best of luck in your endeavors.
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3/20/2010 6:53 am |
Hello, I do have clear pictures, but I will not post them on here. I am 58, stand 5'10" at 200lbs. I am a non-smoker, a very light social drinker and no drugs, always practice safe sex. I very much like that you are lady looking for a gentleman. You are very attractive! I would enjoy getting to know you better and sharing my picture with you. I look forward to your response. Maclean
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You sent me a wink over Christmas. I responded with an email, but no photo. I too, am very reluctant to send a photo through this site. I certainly don't blame you for being cautious,there are many weird/strange people out there and the internet does give them anonimity. As much as I would like to meet you I won't send a photo through this site. What is that old saying 'chicken one day, feathers the next.' And...I really enjoyed your blog.
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3/25/2010 7:18 pm |
Respect, this is what it boils down to. It seems the majority of people check this at the keyboard. Personal accoutability.
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I totally agree with you ,there is no need for rudeness or game players .It is sad that there are people who have a high number on there age ,yet there mind is back in grade school. For the men who might read this ,I have been blessed with getting to know this wonderful women .I have spent time with with her and she is a real gem .I just wish there were more women on this site with her brains and attitude towards swinging sex . Take care my sweet until next time. master j
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4/13/2010 8:09 pm |
I have been an admirer since you first posted your very basic profile and one picture. As an "ordinary" member, I have not been able to see the others. I have written to you twice, in each case including a head/shoulders photograph, and in neither case suggesting anything out of order. I did describe, briefly, one of my fantasies about you, but you have requested this. You have never responded - even a polite "no thank you" would have been sufficient acknowledgement. I am well aware that the world is full of ungentlemanly men. I, on the other hand am a gentleman, behave like a gentleman, and have followed your requests for contacts to the letter. So, I will ask the question of you, "Do you ask for responses just for the pleasure of reading them, or are you a true lady behaving as a true lady would do?" I do not expect that you will respond to this post, either, but it does rather beg the question, does it not?
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Very well written, it's unfortunate many men don't seem to understand the concept of politeness. p.s. How come you describe yourself appearance as average?... you certainly don't look average 
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You seem like a very wonderful (and are a very pretty) woman. Hope to meet you sometime!
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I hope that you may travel to Ottawa sometime, I would love to take you to dinner. Would love to hairybagpiper gmail com hear from you...
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1/14/2011 12:56 pm |
Thank you, you always have sensitive Link with me,you send me wink just in time,I wish to receive email, you are one of kind lady
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yes very well written and true,I'm just starting out on her so it's a learning experience for me u can add me as a friend if u like.
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Hope you are well, haven't heard from you for a while... All the best, s 
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Ahh, lovely Rapture...I seem to be unable to connect to you, perhaps you would visit my blog or the Ottawa Big Beautiful Group...
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well , you are sweet, having never met you in person, but we have chatted alot. this old infantry sargeant has your back, you are the sweetest love stillprime
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4/4/2011 6:56 pm |
Thank you, I feel so very safe. Hot Kisses to you! Rapture10
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Very nicely put, had a silver membership but not right now, only standard and can not even mail you. Hope you keep in touch and we can get to know more about eachother. Take care and have a nice day.
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8/16/2011 10:54 am |
Nice to see someone on here stills appreciates etiquette. It's not just you, I think for men it can often be worse, since plenty of couples and women seem to use this site mainly as a boost to self-esteem. While it may turn someone on to open a chat window and then say 'sorry not interested', or just start a conversation and disappear partway along, I have to admit it sours me on FriendFinder-x. I think that reading the profile first should be a must before contacting anyone - standard members can still mouse-over and read the summary, which usually lets you know what the other person(s) are about, and looking for. I know myself, and what I'm looking to get from this, and that means if you email me, I'll reply. If we agree to meet, I'll show up. And I'll definitely enjoy hearing from people who do the same. btw Rapture, I love your pics; elegant, demure and sexy...
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you expect only what's reasonable for a lady - and what's reasonable for a decent man. i think we all agree that the brain is the primary sex organ and what pops out on paper or online is usually a pretty good indicator of how a person will behave in person. relationships should give all parties something of value . . . and knowing someone who knows how to prefer you, cherish you and put you first in social, personal and intimate settings should be the goal of your search. I'd love to have a chance to take you for coffee . . chat and see if there's some chemistry. look forward to hearing from you fillip7769
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