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need to change my profile  

toosweetaride 60F
41 posts
2/21/2010 12:37 pm
need to change my profile


What a bunch of jerks and a-wholes are on here.

I have a box full of dick pictures and guys who think they can get a reply by telling me they are going to take me to ecstasy land.

They are kidding, right

and here for all of you jerks, if you write crap to me and it is offensive, not only will i report you to the site but I will post a copy of what you write on my blog. Maybe that will make you think twice about being a jerk.

Oh yes, I have some means of doing some research and finding out who you really are. You know that thing called ISP, well, it can be used to locate you. Bother me some more, just try it, I want to have some fun messing up YOUR life for a change.

Like my profile says NO MARRIED MEN

or shall we say, if you are MARRIED and you bother me, I will let your wife know. Don't you just love those ISPs

aspiringbo 42M  
791 posts
2/28/2010 9:42 am

Oh, and you might try the forums and chat system as well. I think you can get a better sense of who folks are on there, sometimes. And about the picture leading to fewer emails... No offense intended at all here, but you seem to have the body of a 30 year old, so folks might have been suspicious. I mean, congratulations, but with so many spamming profiles, often savvy men have to be mindful.

"The greatest worth is self-mastery
..quality is seeking to serve others
..precept is continual awareness
..medicine is the emptiness of all
..action is not conforming with the world
..magic is transmuting passions
..wisdom is seeing deeply"


aspiringbo 42M  
791 posts
2/28/2010 9:40 am

    Quoting toosweetaride:
    Hi,

    Well guess what?

    even after posting a pic of me less some clothes I have not received any more emails like the other day.

    guess they would rather move on to less savvy and fiery women.

    Hell, I was once told I could be someone's best ever lover or worst nightmare
Now THAT is an excellent compliment!

I think part of being on the site is riding out the "I'm interested NOW!" deluge. In the case of women, I think that probably happens overwhelmingly in the first few weeks... and in the case of men, it happens in littler waves over time. But I think part of the process of actually having presence on here is sort of finding best practices for floating above that base of totally uninteresting "sex-now-grunt!" for women and spam-requests for me.

And I have NO idea why you didn't get more emails given your very attractive and real (vs. swiped from a porn site) picture. Maybe your filtering is working?

"The greatest worth is self-mastery
..quality is seeking to serve others
..precept is continual awareness
..medicine is the emptiness of all
..action is not conforming with the world
..magic is transmuting passions
..wisdom is seeing deeply"


mytbone5 58M
1503 posts
2/22/2010 6:07 am

Sorry, but I busted out laughing when I read the first line of this post. Your first post seemed so hopeful, and then the next one was like BAM!

You aren't the first to receive those types of emails and post your aggravation about it. Good and Aspiring have good advice. From what I read, they don't stop with complaining. I think there's a way to report them for abuse, but I would uses it sparingly. You don't want to seem like a trouble maker and get yourself kicked off here.

Enjoy the ride! I look forward to reading your next post...


aspiringbo 42M  
791 posts
2/21/2010 6:32 pm

agreed with good. Good luck with the crowds. Some folks have luck with the cupid filter... and welcome to the site! Flaws and all.

"The greatest worth is self-mastery
..quality is seeking to serve others
..precept is continual awareness
..medicine is the emptiness of all
..action is not conforming with the world
..magic is transmuting passions
..wisdom is seeing deeply"


good1622 62M
614 posts
2/21/2010 3:52 pm

There is no sense in complaining, because they won't stop.and even though u stop some,some more will pop up..
Best thing is to ignore them.


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