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Rotten luck, or too many not serious or fake?  

AlwaysUp692009 53M
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2/26/2010 12:33 pm
Rotten luck, or too many not serious or fake?


Okay, I think I have been toying around with the internet long enough to know that most profiles are fake, and are of people just on to play games and not serious about meeting. Sites like this have ads that pretty much assure you that you will get laid if you become a premium member. Well that is not so (besides, I am realistic to know it's not as simple as that - you need to meet in person first, see if there is mutual attraction in person, then get to know one another and gain trust, then MAYBE you'll get laid). I've done the premium member thing. I paid to be able to open profiles and send messages. I sent messages to those who viewed me, hotlisted me, and/or to a few I had an interest in and matched with. No responses. Further: Being a premium member really did not get me more views than being a standard member. So getting a lot of views does not happen to say nothing of getting messages, then meeting in person and hoping you both mutually click then, and then finally getting laid.

Are most profiles on sites like this fake? Are they created by those who have nothing better to do with their time but to play games with people serious about meeting someone? Maybe profiles are even created by those running the sites to entice people to join and pay for membership? If it's any or all these things combined, it just makes things tougher for those who do want to meet someone for whatever type of relationships they are seeking.

Let's be for real here: I know I am not mister<b> wet dream </font></b>Ken Doll. I am not rich and famous (that sure helps if you're not a Ken Doll). But I am not the ugliest thing in the world either. I am in as good of shape physically as I was as a which is more than most my age can say. So I think I am seeing what one has to be on the internet to get responses. One probably has to post pics that are not of themselves (I see a lot of profiles that seem to be obvious fakes with professional looking modeling type pics), or pics of themselves that are 10, 20, or more years old that were taken when they were in better shape. Well, my pics are mine and they are recent enough that they show what I look like NOW. The only things I can think of if it's not my overall condition is the fact my hair is too long, my hair is not dark enough, I am not dark enough, I don't have tatoos or piercings, I am not tall enough, I am not heavy enough, I am not muscular enough, my cock is too big or not big enough,....... the list can go on and on. But it has to be something.

If the internet as the way it seems to me; that one has to fit every little detail in what someone is looking for, that you have to be rich and successful (or fake it), blah blah blah. Then this is truly the "lottery game" I see it as being, and not worth the expensive premium membership.

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