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Why is the term Gang Bang seen as negative.  

strawberycouple 53M/51F
19 posts
6/7/2010 8:26 pm
Why is the term Gang Bang seen as negative.

I have always found the term Gang Bang to be negative and or derogatory in nature. The term Gang Bang is often used with terms such as Cum Dumpster, Cum Queen or Cum . All terms no Lady Lifestyler would want used to describe them.

Is A lady who involves herself in a Gang Bang all that Trashy? How many of us Lady Lifestylers are involved with Gang Bangs on a regular bases. How many of us Lady lifestylers fail to recognize or admit that the activities we often not only engage in but enjoy as a true Gang Bang because of the negativity around the term.

I have been reflecting on my usual activities of choice when at a Play Party or DnD. This is my conclusion, I most definitely often engage in Gang Bangs. Does this make me Trashy, some will say yes. For me it merely means I have a very strong Libido and require multiple partners to satisfy my sexual needs.

As I have gotten older I have gained the sexual confidence to be open and honest with myself as to what my sexuality is, as to what my sexual needs are and what sexual activities will meet those needs. So what am I? I'm a openly Bi-sexual lady with a large sexual appetite that requires multiple partners or yes a Gang Bang to meet my sexual needs.
Xiuhcozqui 63M

6/7/2010 8:58 pm

 I agree completely!Just accepting our sexuality in its proper dimension. Some people are born with a 12 inch penis, some with a 5 inch. Some people are DD/E cups and some barely A. If we can accept that, why can't we accept there are some people with more of a sexual appetite than others? Not only would your gang bang approach allows for a greater overall satisfaction, it also opens the door for those of us who cannot compete in length or girth with a 10 inch cock! You see? and right there lies the point of my comment. If you enjoy a gang bang, why let a social label ruin the fun for you. But I'm afraid I'm preaching to the choir. Have fun!
Light and Peace... Xiuhcozqui.


steelers004 62M

6/7/2010 9:00 pm

 I'd like to comment, if I may. I have not been involved in a "multiple partner" scenario. One or two MMFand one MMFF. At no time did my attitude or thoughts change about anyone (particularly the women), if anything, I found it very erotic and exciting that a woman could be so open and enjoy sex and still maintain their focus in their lives on what truly matters. I think that if it's something that you enjoy and I would assume the other parties enjoy (why else would they be there!) they should be grateful to have had the experience and say thanks. I also believe that anyone associating the terms "Cum Dumpster, Cum Queen, etc. have never had the opportunity and/or is just plain immature about sex.


strawberycouple 53M/51F
9 posts
6/8/2010 5:00 pm

 Hello TieU4Fun.

I have to ask, why what? Why does she want to meet you if all her pics are of Black men? Possibly for variety as I said women like myself enjoy creativity and change. One of the reason's I enjoy Gang Bangs is for the variety, I can have small cock's, large cock's, younger men, older men, skinny men, heavy men and several different races in one romp.


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