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Relearning to be Sexy  

BareBackHotWife 52M/53F  
18 posts
5/10/2018 2:21 pm
Relearning to be Sexy
So a new topic today...

If someone ever WANTS to take pictures of you. DON'T SAY NO!

I will honestly say that I am the first to kick, scream, yell and probably cause a scene as soon as someone pulls out a camera. I can honestly say I prefer pictures of my toes then of my face.

*shrugs 'eh'*

but when you have grown up with dolls that look like Barbie and followed Vogue, Cosmo and every other magazine we had growing up... Eh, I blame society and multi-media.

It seems no matter how hard you work out, run, diet... even plastic surgery, things can happen that will make your body lose that perfect shape at 32 and... your self-esteem will begin to drop. No one tells you how to handle the later years and trust me... it is hard.

So what I suggest... Start strutting about in your home naked... yep I said naked. Close the curtains/blinds or whatever but take time to enjoy you... in the body, you have now. I remember the first few times it was a run from the bathroom to the bedroom. Then it was walking about upstairs... now I'm so comfortable that I wander about my whole home... *reminder though, NOT near the stove, grease hurts.... lol*

Then the next step... is take pictures of the new you. Find a photographer that specializes in boudoir or intimate shots. Get... what I call the "NEW YOU" shots. As much as we want to hold onto our past and the glory days... we can't. If we do that, we will miss out on what the future has in store for us.

But try it... give me feedback on what you think. To re-invent you... you need to be comfortable with the new you.

By the way... here is a picture of me... yes, after 50, and when I got them back, I sat there in shock with tears running down my face... Thinking, that is NOT a woman that looks 50. So lets take baby steps together and work on creating the new you.

Oh, and trust me, if you find the right photographer... he will make you look amazing without all that photoshop resizing. Softening/lighting... yes, reshaping... no,

Let us see the real you and share with me... some of your work.

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