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Sure I can do that, just give me a minute to put on some armor
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Sure I can do that, just give me a minute to put on some armor This post is only viewable by FriendFinder-x members. Join FriendFinder-x now! You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein |
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Lola, you never know when or how someone will peel back your armor a bit, or when the visor will suddenly slip over your eyes and blind you. Does it really protect you? (asked by one who likely wears his own armor in some way or another) I do know that touch is a powerful healing force! Sometimes you give, sometimes you get, and the best times you share. Hugs to you chas But my defense is just for that tenderness I feel in the presence of a person I could fall in love with, binding them to me, out of loneliness and need. Much rather have that more exciting, surprising and energizing fall into their arms or them into mine, followed by weeks and weeks of passion and thrills! Followed by the usual loss. ha. Or so it seems. You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein
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Lola, you never know when or how someone will peel back your armor a bit, or when the visor will suddenly slip over your eyes and blind you. Does it really protect you? (asked by one who likely wears his own armor in some way or another) I do know that touch is a powerful healing force! Sometimes you give, sometimes you get, and the best times you share. Hugs to you chas
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Getting out the WD 40 spraying my armour. Thank you for this blog. Gentle reminders are all over the A.F.F./Pa ss ion blogosphere, and thank goodness for that. Nice to see you here. Been a while... Lola You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein
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Getting out the WD 40 spraying my armour. Thank you for this blog.
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Yes, I know you are accurate in your analysis of the situation. We both have a long way to go to feel that comfort that comes from being in a better relationship. I wish you luck in overcoming this particular stance in life, that I am seeming to choose, too. The one where we are both so defended, no one can really get too close. And if they try, we doubt our value, or just piss off the other person. You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein
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I may need to get some amour, cause this just sucks. Paint Play Pet Peeve Pony Girls Private Cleavage 1 My Private Blog – Tell me your secrets Ignore the bad attitude, I'm in pain. You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein
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I may need to get some amour, cause this just sucks. Paint Play Pet Peeve Pony Girls Private Cleavage 1 My Private Blog – Tell me your secrets
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hmmm, could that be what's pushing down on the scales lately? Ha. Yes, I know that is wisdom talking to me, dear lady. If only the reality of not getting burned every time, made the fear go away. Once bitten, twice shy. You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein
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Sweet Jim, What a delight to see this picture and your beautiful physique again. Um, here. Ha. Just a thought, perhaps turning around would be more welcoming to us, the lonely ladies who like you. Perhaps? The stuff that we are not aware of - that's the hard part. That's where therapy does wonders. At least gaining insights into the habitual patterns. I have a few of those going on, for sure. But the more wonderful the man, the more I pull back, as though I don't deserve him, and could never be his 'woman'. So far it's been true. Who can argue with my history? Not that I don't fantasize being different, acting differently, welcoming and pulling people towards me, instead of fleeing them, or turning my back (metaphorically speaking, of course). Little secret about many of us ladies - we are all a bit emotionally injured. It would be difficult to find one who was free to love you without that bit of injury, I think. You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein
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it sounds like you're doing energetic work and when you do, if you are not careful you pull the energy of the other person int yourself. the armpits and the top of the legs are moth marma points and never ganglia so very sensitive and very intensne energetic spots. they can open the energy flow. it isn't clear to me if you were doing this purposely or just intuitively but if you did to want to take on the energy you can cross your ankles to close the circle which moves the energy back into the him. you can also sweep the body to release it from him afterwards. I was just following the instructions in my head/heart? I was only curious about his body, about where he holds the pain that we all seem to have. Not a practitioner, but have long had 'massage' skills. Took some classes on 'non-invasive' healing, ala polarity therapy, and of course have had Reiki therapy several times for some physical problems. I was reaching out to him, being as careful as I can be to not make his pain worse or to take it on myself. I agree that one should not 'mess' with this stuff too much, especially being untrained. Thanks for the warning. Muah! You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein
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Expect an avalanche of attention, then. Or is that just my fantasy? You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein
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it sounds like you're doing energetic work and when you do, if you are not careful you pull the energy of the other person int yourself. the armpits and the top of the legs are moth marma points and never ganglia so very sensitive and very intensne energetic spots. they can open the energy flow. it isn't clear to me if you were doing this purposely or just intuitively but if you did to want to take on the energy you can cross your ankles to close the circle which moves the energy back into the him. you can also sweep the body to release it from him afterwards. You cannot conceive the many without the one.
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Yes, fear. My expectation is that I will be hurt. Now, I try to mediate that by declaring my body available, but my heart is guarded. I refuse - absolutely refuse - to fall in love anymore. But I do 'love' everybody here. Blogging has that 'defended space' built-in. No fear here, only fun. And interest. And nervous anticipation about reactions. Perfect for a woman-under-glass, behind the monitor, only available via interweb. Sex toys, women-friendly porn that seems to get better over time, fantasy life enhancements like some of you men, phone calls that titillate, and commiseration with the ladies, with that edge of desire for them, too. All this has added to the delight of a continuing libido, beyond where it was never expected. It's enough, as long as I have some lovers here in my own backyard. You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein
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I have no armor...what you see is what you get with me. Back when I had armor, I could never get into a relationship with the right kind of partner. So, I recycled my armor and went out into the world emotionally naked. I have had much better experiences ever since.  You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein
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I have no armor...what you see is what you get with me. Back when I had armor, I could never get into a relationship with the right kind of partner. So, I recycled my armor and went out into the world emotionally naked. I have had much better experiences ever since. AKA The Clit Whisperer. 
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You are a beautiful woman YaYas. Beautiful post - I have recently re-applied some of my Protective Emotional Armour - I had to. Just for awhile until I know all will be well and then I will let it down a bit again. Right or wrong I have to sometimes do things my way - even if that means hurting someone that I care about. But you see, it's practice in trusting my fellow bloggers. And feeling safe. Because yes, protection is important. I was a weekend hippie in the 60's, 70's, but have grown more cautious over the years. I am less quick to pick up on innuendo or flattery, right up to the moment that I am overwhelmed by the other person. ha. Until coming here in early 2006 and feeling the pull to meet and meet and meet... yet, some people were quick to take advantage. Not anymore. Armour (however it's spelled, ha) is important for all of us, no doubt to keep in place, until the 'coast is clear'! Warm regards my to you, dear heart. Thanks for telling us about your armour! Lola You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein
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Thank you sweet lady. I appreciate the compliment. Feel a bit at sea lately about showing myself, but want to be known by my blogging buddies, as much as possible (within reason). Keeping the emotional distance, but extending myself as much as I can. There was a peak of openness that I experienced about 4 years ago... and I've become much more protective. And, I want to stay here and enjoy all of you, near and far, without breaking our alliances, messing with people in comments when I feel bitchy, and accepting that we each have a need for privacy and protection. Hugs. And thank you for your comment! Lola You should only read what is truly good or what is frankly bad. Gertrude Stein
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You are a beautiful woman YaYas. Beautiful post - I have recently re-applied some of my Protective Emotional Armour - I had to. Just for awhile until I know all will be well and then I will let it down a bit again. Right or wrong I have to sometimes do things my way - even if that means hurting someone that I care about. BehindMyBlues
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