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Blogs > ladyj_1957 > Lady J's Musings

More words....  

ladyj_1957 66F
3233 posts
7/14/2011 7:21 pm
More words....

Just as cigar is never really just a cigar, sex can never be just sex.
"Don't count the days, make the days count"
compl1cated 77M
109 posts
7/15/2011 3:03 am

 Sometimes, a cigar is just a cigar....

I have found that for many men, anonymous sex without any emotional attachment or connection is possible. Pretty much masturbation with a partner involved. I for one think that the connection is needed to enhance the experience beyond mere masturbation.

It is easy to orgasm through masturbation usually but what do you do afterwards? Can you hold yourself? Wrap your arms around yourself and gently kiss yourself? Can you whisper into your own ear or feel the deep shuddering within? To me, that basking in the afterglow that goes beyond a mere masturbatory experience (even with a partner) is what is best. It is more deeply emotionally satisfying and lasts a hell of a lot longer.


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
7/15/2011 9:27 pm

 We should have different terms for sex that is just sex, and sex that is so much more.
"Don't count the days, make the days count"


compl1cated 77M
109 posts
7/17/2011 7:45 pm

 I like that --- so much more


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