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My Opinion about Faithfulness  

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1/11/2018 9:35 pm
My Opinion about Faithfulness

I wrote about faithfulness in my personal blog (not an adult one); but since this is my blog too, I decided to share some of my opinion here.

First of all, I want to say that everything I write in this blog is purely from my mind… So, if you don’t like what I’ve written or think that I’m crazy and pathetic, please feel free to mingle to other blogs.

I often hear women complaining about their husband cheating, even during long business trip. These women really want their husband to be "pure", not sleeping with anyone despite of getting away from them for more than 1 week (or maybe months and years). The same with men, they want their<b> wives </font></b>to be "pure" too, not sleeping with anyone while the<b> wives </font></b>are neglected sexually for months.

In most cases, we view faithfulness as “staying with the same person both physically, emotionally and sexually”.

My opinion is, such thing only happens in films and romantic novels. And I’m really sick to find most of people around me think naïvely that way.

For me, people can get faithful when they are in love. But soon passion will go away and they will get bored with each other, which is the beginning of what you call cheating or adultery.

So, people can get attached emotionally with their partners, but not physically or sexually.

My experience is, I live far away from my boyfriend and I only can see him once every 6 months. And it’s really disrespectful for me and him if both of us ask with whom we share our beds. We don’t really need to ask such stupid questions as we trust each other.

For me, having sex only with me for the rest of his life is not counted as faithfulness. You know, many people have sex with their only partners but still think about someone else during sex. But when he can’t take me out of his mind even when he’s having sex with other woman is the deepest form of faithfulness.

I view sex as important as foods, water, house and clothings. So, when I’m not around, I let him have sex with any woman he wants, as long as he doesn’t contract any STDs, doesn't make any babies with other women and he doesn’t involve any feelings.

And of course, I expect the same from him, letting me have sex with any man I want.

Maybe I sound too liberal and hedonic, but that’s what I am.

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