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((Be)(Loved)) In this season of "love" how is it I can be original in my thoughts about love and how they pertain to people in open relationship? If you have been reading my blog lately, you know I have been struggling. I have half written blogs on jealousy, abandonment, temperament and shame. But I decided to leave that all in the backseat while I allow something life-giving to take the front and center stage in my heart~ BeLoved~ How do we break it down? To be loved~ Be loved yourself? Be loved by others? Be loving? The significant spiritual Beloved? All of the above is my vote. How do we open our selves up to Be Loved? Truly Loved. To experience love with out fear of being abandoned or forgotten or fear of emotional scarring? Is there anyway to make sure of being loved unconditionally? Don Miguel Ruiz talks about the emotional healing required to begin this process in his book The Mastery of Love: It is Love. Love is the medicine that accelerates the process of healing. There is no other medicine but unconditional love. Not: I love you if, or I love myself if. There is no if. There is no justification. There is no explanation. It is just love. Love yourself, love your neighbor, and love your enemies. This is simple, common sense, but we cannot love others until we love ourselves. That is why we must begin with self-love. We all know that the love we have for our and family is much different than the love we have for our spouse(s). One we are born into/biological. I would forgive my family and especially my for anything and no matter how much I like or don't like their actions, I will always love them. In our society our love for people that are not family feels very conditional to me, which probably feeds my fears. This is a very unhealthy dynamic which is all too common in our world. I have been thinking a lot about love. How I love people in my life. How it expands me and makes my life happier. And the most crucial aspect to my own well being, how I love myself. I do this primarily for myself, but I also do this for my St/Vk and our relationship so we can continue with our open relationship, bringing more love and happiness into our lives, and release the fears that have been holding me/us back. I have been working on how to heal myself and my past traumas. Through talk therapy, physical activity and today I tried Reiki for the first time.... wow~ It felt very powerful to be reminded of my heart and healing the part of me that did not remember that I am BeLoved. It was an interesting experience to realize that the trauma must have happened before I was verbal. Possibly as a baby. The energy was trapped in my throat. By releasing this jagged pain, I began to feel the warmth of loving myself completely. To be my own BeLoved. I left the session feeling light headed. Happy, but not ecstatic. A type of gentle shift away from the negativity which was holding me back from being the loving woman I know I am at the very depths of my being. Deep sigh of relief knowing that the baby steps of healing ancient hurts will help me move forward in loving and trusting more. Woman is the light of God, not just the beloved. It is as she is creative, not be created. ╭♥╯Rumi Sending you all the most BeLoved Love today on Valentine's Day~ xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo A/s ૐ And a special Valentine's Day shout out to my St/Vk~ The patience of a Saint and the love of a God~ I do love you so~ Alphasiren~ Swimming through the waters of non traditional relationships~  |
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