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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/23/2020 7:31 pm

First, condolences on the losses. Then keep in mind this last year, and then some, has been monumentally fucked in various and previously unheard of ways. So it isn't all on you.

Now for a shameless proposition. Instead of 'hurling head-first through the boardwalk planks', which really doesn't sound like fun, come west. You can un-numb (or is it de-numb) yourself and find yourself in a compromising position. You've already wiped the presidential deal off the board so what the heck now you're free to do whatever.

Oh save the "scream my ass off for an hour" fro after you get off the airplane.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


thorvelasco2 55M
53 posts
10/23/2020 7:58 pm

Condolences on your loss. Be your own boss, only fans!


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
10/23/2020 9:08 pm

We're all in flux. Some of us are just more fluxed up than others.
But who's measuring degrees?
I wouldn't worry about leaving that trail of bread crumbs; ya really think anyone will be able to find them, let alone care?
Happy trails! ❗❗😎


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
10/24/2020 12:13 am

While COVID has come for all of us and exacted its tolls, you have truly paid a terrible price. Yours has undoubtedly been more painful than necessary because of our National leadership's incompetence and negligence in managing the Pandemic.

I remain optimistic that regime-change begins November 3rd. Moreover, I believe this change will be informed by a term used in Thursday's debate for which Biden has been chastised: "transition". As with the end of the Second World War, the profoundly-changed world that emerges from the rubble of the 2020 will be infused with precisely the opportunities and changes of direction that you seek.

As we set out to *right* the world, I envision more cooperative and urgent efforts at addressing not only health care, but environmental repair, food security, education and human rights. There will be plenty of opportunities for you to give back in meaningful and constructive ways (without necessarily leaving the City).

Meanwhile, continue introspection and gathering your strength. And of course, keep writing.

Your best is yet to come.


dogslife2live01 71M

10/24/2020 1:50 am

"What is the impact and net effect of that decision? What kind of ripples does it send out?"
is exactly what stops this
'You don’t need anyone’s permission to do what feels right to you, to do what feeds and nourishes you."
(and because I have sex on the brain - gratuitous sex pic: Raw and raunchy.
and there goes the kids chances of running a clean campaign...

sorry to read your world has been torn apart
peace be your partner
strength you guide


there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
10/24/2020 3:32 am



Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


Urhungness 39M  
40 posts
10/24/2020 5:15 am

Unfortunately, we lost the cyclone too (temporarily at least)


Chuckk48 67M

10/24/2020 9:33 am

Well you can take solace in the fact you are not alone. It has been a bad year for a lot of people. Just have to have faith in the fact things will get better. Stay positive and stay sexy.


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
10/24/2020 10:30 am

ahhhhhh the flux..... caught in the in between

The only thing I can suggest is Go with your gut!

ohhhh..... and keep posting sexy raunchy pictures 😈


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
10/24/2020 11:21 am

oh Jules...my heart goes out to you. You are invited to join me in my funk...THAT was the name of my blog you commented on . lol. I send my huggssss and condolences to you....i know all about loss. To lose a mom changes our focus and direction and life forever. Time only puts it on the back burner and allows us to go about our daily doings...but there is always a something something just under the surface.
I think you are certainly entitled to you flux time, flux it up girl. Throw things up and maybe when they land in a different pattern it will all make sense.

One thing that i have learned in my journey and i try to remember it for myself is:

.......Be Kind to Yourself....

wherever you are at that moment , is exactly where you are supposed to be. You will move along when and exactly when you need to.

Huggsss girl ~~


Apollorising60 63M

10/24/2020 1:27 pm

My life too recently has been in a negative state of flux but it is getting better!


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
10/24/2020 6:40 pm

Sorry about all that you've been through and hopefully the tide has turned for you and your family.

Why not pursue your dream of writing under a pen name? As long as if you avoid the spotlight and media appearances, you should be fine and still be recognized for your work, and still be known through your work. However, if you want the world to know you for your beautiful work while revealing your beautiful face, then yes, the media attention may come back to haunt you and your family. Then again, the First Lady was seen naked and it didn't hurt her husband.

Most still have sex on the brain so you're not alone, and do whatever makes you happy as long as it's safe. Sadly Florida is not, so no Disney trips for me.

Go for it and do what makes you happy...while having a backup plan


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
10/25/2020 9:54 am

I understand you situation. I have been there. Sex was always a great release and escape. Not these days. That's part of the frustration. We all want to play again. You are very pretty and seem very intelligent. You will get through this, we all will.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
10/27/2020 1:56 am

Your endeavour and determination to find positive way forward for you and those around you is both courageous and infinitely admirable Jules. Quite astounding really in the circumstances.

I'm almost angry on your behalf that things have conspired to steal away your ability and right to grieve in the proper way, though perhaps what you're going through is exactly that process.

If I could do anything meaningful to support you, I would.

Take care beautiful lady, be good to yourself, you deserve it.


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