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Typically, a person who gets bored is very likely a boring person, and expects others to entertain him or her. The best thing to do is to simply ignore those people.
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So true. "I'm horny" = bored, in most cases.
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Perhaps your admirer intended to pique your interest by simulating a *beautiful mess effect*. In his mind, a self-image of boredom and loneliness projected vulnerability, through which he aspired to insinuate himself as courageous in baring his fragile emotions to a beautiful woman. Research has demonstrated that there is some efficacy in this strategy. Vulnerability has its charms and has been found to be appealing to people who also struggle with self-confidence. (Note: your admirer either did not have access to your profile or neglected to read it, as *lack of self-esteem* is neither explicitly nor implicitly expressed therein). Unfortunately for your admirer, there is a complementary *pratfall effect*, wherein people who self-own as weak, lonely and vulnerable are perceived as….well….weak, lonely and vulnerable. While you are certainly under no obligation to offer either direction or fulfillment to this lonely-heart, you might suggest he offer prayers to Saint Anthony the Great. Saint Anthony was a Christian monk who overcame the temptations of "boredom, laziness and phantoms of women" by living for several years in a tomb. For his pluck and enterprise, Saint Anthony was also anointed the patron saint of gravediggers, an occupation that might not relieve boredom and loneliness, but should remind one that things could be worse.
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Younger but bored.... I can't believe you didn't just jump right into action. *snort There's a certain sense of entitlement to a man who makes a "I'm bored, please commence entertaining me" statement like that. Sadly there are many women who will continue to play along with being in charge of entertainment for the low low price of his "attention." My standard response is ignoring it but if I haaaad to say something it'd be along the lines of "if you're bored, you're boring."
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11/5/2020 4:06 am |
"How do you respond when someone says they're bored and lonely?" son! take theyself in hand! "Why NOT put your best foot forward? Isn't that a good way to be?" it is a sad, sad world out there. that is the best foot for some... but (life is full of butts) even sadder it is good enough for sum bonne vie there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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How do you respond when someone says they're bored and lonely? I don't And when women start their profiles with . . . "I don't like this, I don't want that. Don't do this. And definitely don't do that" I don't bother reading further. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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As if You Gals ( writer & respondents ) Do Not get, Bored , Lonely or Horny !!!!! Just My Humble Opinion !!! Bored ; feeling weary because one is unoccupied or lacks interest in one's current activity. Lonely ; without companions or companionship Horny ; feeling of or arousal of sexual excitement.  
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....lol.... the ole question ... .are you Eyore? or Tigger? .... hi... I'm bored... why are you lying on the bed... shouldn't you be up and doing something... anything...can't you help me boredom.... tell me something to make me have a half assed grin... please... please... sigh... ...screech ... halt ... wait ... what.... damn... when you said you were gonna ditch the grannie panties, I was not aware that you were going to go all out and just pose there in such an enticing and eye catching demeanor... wisps of dark hair teasingly peering from the corner of the picture... sensual curvature of back blending into derreire... à toute allure madamoiselle ... not fair... more please... .....so.... Eyore.... or Tigger.... what's in your wallet? ....
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Sex is always hot with positive people. You my sexy one,can still Dom me if you want too!
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Agreed my dear! And yes... I know I can Dom you whenever the whim so takes me. Isn't that the point? Me telling YOU? lol Yes, Mistress I will obey when you are ready to tell me to Obey!
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11/5/2020 4:26 pm |
Generally speaking people are negative and lazy. Keeping a positive attitude is harder, more work. That and the fact sympathy tends to work for whatever reason. I'm bored, my life sucks so take pity on me, you could change my life. I know, that's a negative attitude itself toward people but facts are facts and should be addressed.
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They see me rollin' They hatin' Just signed up to FriendFinder-x and I am bored and lonely. Who's his inspiration? Eeyore? Hell of a way to catch one's attention. Be more like Tigger on FriendFinder-x
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I can't speak for the others but if I were in your area and I wanted to have any hopes of meeting you I would start by finding something in your profile that we had in common and work something towards that like... "I see you are adventurous and like to explore the great outdoors. I am also an outdoors type person and would love to go explore (insert an outdoors area near you) and have a picnic lunch. In addition, I'm an artist and would love to do a drawing of you while there. After all, it is a great location and you would certainly make the setting even more beautiful. So would you be interested?"... Now I have shown you that I care enough about you that I have read your profile, I am offering an adventure where you will feel in your comfort zone, I am expressing a talent I have and can offer where you are the center of my attention. And lastly, I did not mention anything sexual so you would not feel I am only after one thing. So, would this have gained a positive response from you and would you have considered doing the suggested activity? (P.s. I did not read your profile because I only have the free membership. So the part I mention about your profile is totally guessing.)
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Jules1590 replies on 11/5/2020 4:30 pm: Oh Honey, Tigga all the way. I'm such a bouncy gal. Hmmm... it IS a decidedly yummy pic, I love the fishnets and heels, but alas its not of me. Merlot replied: ...yawn , twas suspected that the pic was not you... for on another FriendFinder-x channel you were attempting to bounce your Tigger tail away with your grannie panties in tow... LMAO.... after exhibiting your feminine creativity through an extension of a slightly colorful poem, of course...
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i don't get messages saying they are bored and lonely. but here is a message i did get. him: Hello, I hope you guys are doing well.I would love to get to know you..... me: "you guys" ? i think you have me confused with a couple's profile? good luck finding your couple. i hope it was a hot party. him: No it was a typo I meant you this is the problem with copy / pasting your response to everyone. i still think he really meant "you guys" and i'm not really interested...
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There's just no class in the world any more McJules, what do they teach the kids in school these days? That's what I wanna know! I mean, I remember the days when 'fancy a shag?' was guaranteed to get ye the leg-over...... Of course that was over on that other Various Inc dating site - ASS - Adult Sheep Shagger........
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I have to think it's a bad habit that's caught on like wild fire. I bet you if you do a survey & ask those who have bored & lonely, if they think they're a boring person, they'll say no. Or find out what their interests are & most might be pretty interesting once you get to know em. Most (I did too at some point), stumble with coming up with a well rounded description of themselves in a few sentences, so as such, they seek what others have done & copied. I think we've all done it, scope out the grass on the other side of the fence, steal an idea or 2 then make it your own. This one though, is a bad idea to copy. It's similar to when I read profiles & see "must of" or were instead of we're :facepalm:
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All I can think about is how to meet a woman? Or how to impress a person? "Hello, I'm Bud, I'm bored and a little younger then you, would you like to talk a little?" Such a great conversation starter? OK, why are you bored and why do you wish to begin talking to me, might be a good response. I know there are reasons for boredom. but, when trying to meet someone, is that the way to begin the conversation with a stranger? Personally, I think not. In my mind, this person sounds more like Eeyore. Oh, I'm bored, it's going to rain or why am I here? BTW, I love Eeyore. *S* I am scratching my head, wondering how a person responds to that statement. Anyway, I will try not to give it to much thought throughout the day. *S* Bud Always Ready for Fun.
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