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Taking A Break Is Not A Sign of Defeat  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10179 posts
2/5/2021 11:53 am
Taking A Break Is Not A Sign of Defeat



The Mountain is a poem by English author and artist Laura Ding-Edwards . I.t is also the of her poetry book that was released in October "2019."

She does not proclaim her book t.o be one of self-help nor a cure for anything. Her overall view is that perfection is unattainable, kindness is paramount, and embracing every part of we are is the o.n.l.y way we find any kind of peace within ourselves.

This poem is a reminder that it is o.k t.o not always be o.k and is nothing wrong with taking a break as that is not a sign of defeat.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/5/2021 11:58 am

Too often, people beat themselves up for not be able to tackle things the first time. Or feel that they must always strive for perfection. As I said in a previous post, my goal is always to be my best on any given day. I don't try nor want to be anyone but the 'best' version of me.


Coach4BustyFWB 54M
51 posts
2/5/2021 1:49 pm

That is a sensible approach to life. A person who can strive to the their best each day, and be willing to accept the outcome, is often much happier.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
2/5/2021 2:20 pm

That thing about staying in bed? 🤔
Yeah, I think I'll follow that advice tomorrow or Sunday... or both.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
2/5/2021 2:24 pm

Thankfully, I have never been one to demand perfection in myself.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


benard69 66M/66F  

2/5/2021 3:10 pm

Love the poem...Thanks for posting...


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/5/2021 3:15 pm

What a great poem today, I can totally relate to it, and just do what it says is so on point. I hope your Friday is a great start to a wonderful weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


umaykissmesoftly 67F  
344 posts
2/5/2021 4:53 pm

Lovely poem, I whole-heartedly agree with it


Apollo602021 63M

2/5/2021 8:32 pm

I am not perfect myself so therefore I don't expect perfection from anybody else!

Please become an Apollo602021 blog follower!


trixietrixster 56F  
3125 posts
2/6/2021 5:19 am

We all need a battery recharge from time to time. Gives us a new way to look at things ...

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
2/6/2021 7:45 am

"Perfection is unattainable, kindness is paramount, and embracing every part of who we are is the way we find any kind of peace within ourselves."

What a wonderful concept for this self-flagellating recovering Catholic.

Elevate me...


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
2/6/2021 9:49 am

My motto in life has been....Be Kind to Yourself! Its especially useful in these trying times. Yes...taking a break is very necessary and alot of times when we revisit it....we see a different view. Be Kind....

Great Post !!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:40 am

    Quoting Coach4BustyFWB:
    That is a sensible approach to life. A person who can strive to the their best each day, and be willing to accept the outcome, is often much happier.
Yes, I thought so too which is why I decided to share the poem here. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:41 am

    Quoting  :

In many ways, life would be a lot simpler and less hectic. How someone handles stress does have a direct effect on their health and happiness. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:42 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    That thing about staying in bed? 🤔
    Yeah, I think I'll follow that advice tomorrow or Sunday... or both.
A great place to be when it's freezing cold outside.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:43 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Thankfully, I have never been one to demand perfection in myself.
If that's your key to happiness then it looks like it's working well for you!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:46 am

    Quoting  :

Yes, I thought people might think that. I didn't think simply putting "The Mountain" would catch people's interest to stop in and read. And to your point, I have taken breaks in different ways; just never went so far as to shut down my profile.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:47 am

    Quoting  :

I thought the words were particularly relevant during these difficult times.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:48 am

    Quoting benard69:
    Love the poem...Thanks for posting...
Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to read it. Glad you enjoyed it.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:49 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:50 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    What a great poem today, I can totally relate to it, and just do what it says is so on point. I hope your Friday is a great start to a wonderful weekend..
I thought it might resonate with you. Glad you enjoyed it. Hope you are relaxing and will enjoy the Super Bowl!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:51 am

Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to enjoy it.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:51 am

    Quoting Apollo602021:
    I am not perfect myself so therefore I don't expect perfection from anybody else!
We can't expect more of others than what we expect of ourselves.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:53 am

    Quoting trixietrixster:
    We all need a battery recharge from time to time. Gives us a new way to look at things ...
Definitely. Sometimes you have to step away from something to see it from a different and honest perspective.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:54 am

    Quoting hippiechick1967:
    "Perfection is unattainable, kindness is paramount, and embracing every part of who we are is the way we find any kind of peace within ourselves."

    What a wonderful concept for this self-flagellating recovering Catholic.
Words that many need to embrace regardless of their own personal history. Thank you for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2021 10:56 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    My motto in life has been....Be Kind to Yourself! Its especially useful in these trying times. Yes...taking a break is very necessary and alot of times when we revisit it....we see a different view. Be Kind....

    Great Post !!
Too often we put the needs of others before our own and the results aren't great. Kindness often costs nothing other than the effort to extend it. Thank you for dropping by and sharing your perspective.


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