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texting, my perception  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
1/4/2015 6:16 am
texting, my perception


I was reading someone else's blog and liked it well enough to blog on the subject myself. I was going to respond and decided it would make a great blog.

My now adult got me to start texting when texting first started. I fought it tooth and nail. I did not like it at the time. I do now except for one thing and it's a huge thing. A person can say anything they want to in a text. It will either be the truth or not. I think it's easier to lie when texting.

I can tell more talking to the person on the phone. You can hear background noise, (if they aren't someplace quiet while talking. You can hear their voice inflections, making it easier to understand what they are saying and meaning. If you know the person at all, you can tell when they are teasing, mad, happy, sarcastic, etc. words have more meaning when talking.

Anyway, if you can't talk at the time or prfer not to, texting is better then on line message exchange. I also<b> love </font></b>to send sext messages, I think it's erotic to know you are turning your lover on.

with all that, I realize many men do not like to text or receive texts. I use it more than I should, I know that. I have had a lover of mine message me every morning and every night from the day we have met. It's been almost 3 years. I like my lil good morning and whatever lil message he sends. I also like my good night with end of day message. Do we text during the day, not really.

Do I text men, yes I am guilty of it. I figure if they don't like it they can let me know or they can respond when they want to. with that being said, many of my lovers, even steady ones travel like I do, or live in another city. There are times when I am working or doing something, and I will tell the guys not to text, they won't get an answer. I get back to them when I am not. I figure if you are busy and/or don't want to respond back, just send a message, saying busy, not a good time, or whatever. Just let them know. Of course if it's your wife, that may be another situation, you may want to answer back.

There is no answer, just whatever you decided between the two of you.

I wish you luck in what you are searching for here................thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


JustHere2Cam 56M
14229 posts
1/4/2015 7:36 am

It's a lot harder to read a person's emotions and tone of voice when texting.


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ElDeano64116 66M

1/4/2015 7:47 am

Texting is a mixed blessing. Sometimes you want to baptize the texts, sometimes you want to drown them.
Good Post


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
1/4/2015 9:26 am

    Quoting ElDeano64116:
    Texting is a mixed blessing. Sometimes you want to baptize the texts, sometimes you want to drown them.
    Good Post
I got the idea from looking at your post today. thanks.............thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
1/4/2015 9:27 am

    Quoting  :

talking is better than texting to feel out a person...............thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
1/4/2015 9:30 am

    Quoting JustHere2Cam:
    It's a lot harder to read a person's emotions and tone of voice when texting.
better than texting, talking on the phone is in person. I learn alot by looking at a person's eyes...........................thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
1/4/2015 3:30 pm

then call or meet in person, it's so simple..........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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