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The first time  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
2/28/2016 9:10 pm
The first time

good evening, Unknown I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.

We all have firsts in our life. Once you have done something, the first time experiences and feelings are different the second time and any time there after.

There can only be one first time for anything we do in life.

I love to do things for the first time, as well as watch someone's reaction when they do something for the first time.

I like to compare it to a meet n greet.

you have all these thoughts, feelings, anticipations, assumptions, questions and many other feelings running through you.


The thing about doing something for the first time is, you will either enjoy it, or you will wonder what the fuck you were doing and thinking.

If the first time is enjoyable, pleasurable, memorable, exciting, or wow, you want to do it again.


If the first time is not enjoyable or what you expected, you may or may not want to do it again.

I am one of those people that likes to do something a second time even if the first time was not as expected, or as pleasurable or enjoyable as expected.

Situations, attitudes, people, and things change. For what ever reason, sometimes it's worth a second chance.

Also, if the first time is so enjoyable, the second time or more, can be even more pleasurable, memorable, and enjoyable. Or not.

As I write this, I can feel the pleasure of the enjoyable first times running through me.

When you try something new, do it with the anticipation of . Look at it with all the excitement and wonder through a 's eyes. Enjoy it.


When you feel like your day is not going as you want it to, for any reason at all.

Pick one of those first time moments, and remember the pleasure, memories, feelings, and excitement you felt.


Remember those feelings.

Live each day as if it's the first day.

Have a good evening.


Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


iwalkstilts 48M
2869 posts
2/28/2016 9:50 pm

Love that pic of the kid with the bubbles!
: )


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/28/2016 9:54 pm

    Quoting iwalkstilts:
    Love that pic of the kid with the bubbles!
    : )
thanks, i like using pictures in the blogs, it's just takes more time than i like to find the right ones for me........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
2/28/2016 9:54 pm

You have a stellar attitude! If it was worth doing once, it's probably better with a little practice!

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thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/28/2016 10:06 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    You have a stellar attitude! If it was worth doing once, it's probably better with a little practice!
ooohhhhh yessssss. Whats even better is when it its different and pleasurable every time after that as well....................thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
2/28/2016 10:38 pm

What a great attitude!
when you are having a bad day, remember one of the great first times...
I wish more of us thought the way you do!
Thank you!
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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/29/2016 1:02 am

I'm all for a second time generally; the second time is the first time after the rehearsal!


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
2/29/2016 8:48 am

An excellent post and ty for sharing.. A great contribution to this symposium hugss V

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Annie_34 65T
5945 posts
2/29/2016 11:48 am


Bonjour Thegrlsnme
D'accord avec vous si une première fois n'est pas réussi il faut recommencer
♥ Bisou ♥ Poton ♥ Annie ♥


Hello Thegrlsnme
Okay with you if once is not successful you must begin
♥ Kiss ♥ Annie ♥



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karmamdA 65M
311 posts
2/29/2016 12:38 pm

come spend time with me and hold each other tight when you fine time sweetie come grab my hand for the first time


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/29/2016 5:43 pm

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    What a great attitude!
    when you are having a bad day, remember one of the great first times...
    I wish more of us thought the way you do!
    Thank you!
    Kitkat
It works. When you have a bad day, you think of the first time you took a step after hip surgery and did not hirt. You remember the look on your lovers face during sex. Try it.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/29/2016 5:45 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I'm all for a second time generally; the second time is the first time after the rehearsal!
Sometimes it's better than the first, and sometimes not. But a second , third and many times ,ore is wonderful when you are enjoying something.?.....thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/29/2016 5:46 pm

    Quoting mcmaniac:
    I remember the 1st time I had a root canal, I didn't like it. They re-did that root canal 2 more times before they gave up. I didn't like any of them.
You believed it when they told you the dentist was fun..........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/29/2016 5:54 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    An excellent post and ty for sharing.. A great contribution to this symposium hugss V
Thank you for reading and commenting.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/29/2016 5:55 pm

    Quoting Annie_34:

    Bonjour Thegrlsnme
    D'accord avec vous si une première fois n'est pas réussi il faut recommencer
    ♥ Bisou ♥ Poton ♥ Annie ♥


    Hello Thegrlsnme
    Okay with you if once is not successful you must begin
    ♥ Kiss ♥ Annie ♥


Thank you.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/29/2016 5:56 pm

    Quoting karmamdA:
    come spend time with me and hold each other tight when you fine time sweetie come grab my hand for the first time
Awwwwwwww.....thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/29/2016 5:57 pm

    Quoting Eros_Space:
    I like the larger font in your blog!
Thanks, so did i..........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


NaughtyInSO 113F
9755 posts
2/29/2016 8:09 pm

Some of the first times are definitely worth repeating.

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thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
3/1/2016 6:11 am

    Quoting NaughtyInSO:
    Some of the first times are definitely worth repeating.
Yes they are most definitely........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
3/1/2016 6:12 am

    Quoting  :

Experiencing new things are enjoyable. I plan on having many more. Thanks for the comment........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
3/4/2016 5:32 am

    Quoting Honeydripper126:
    loving the attitude to approach each new experience with the enthusiasm and joy of a child
Going for the gusts with total abandonment. .........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
4/24/2016 12:25 pm

What beautiful sentiments! And nestled in them is the idea that a much-experienced action can seem like the first time with the right person... well stated!

Your choices of images are well selected, too: They add a sensuality and sense of delight to your post. Thank you for contributing to the symposium!

Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
5/20/2016 3:11 am

    Quoting humorlife:
    What beautiful sentiments! And nestled in them is the idea that a much-experienced action can seem like the first time with the right person... well stated!

    Your choices of images are well selected, too: They add a sensuality and sense of delight to your post. Thank you for contributing to the symposium!
I love the symposium, just haven't taken a breath to participate last month. I will make every effort to do it this month.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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