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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

What if.....  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
1/24/2018 9:13 am
What if.....

Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I'm so looking forward to having one there.

This is basically the blog I wanted to blog about, I led up to it a little bit with me having some medical issues.

Today has been a total turnaround I'm on some new meds, all the allergic reaction is gone my hip is going fine I'm actually ready to get up and go now.

One of the things that bothered me, was what if I didn't get better what if I stayed sick, what if I have to limp for the rest of my life, or what if I had a face swollen all the time because of meds or some medical condition.

And I know this happens too many of us, I'm just not ready for it.

What if, you can't have sex anymore because of a medical condition, or you feel like you're not good enough for a relationship because of a medical condition. What do you do then.

No this is not happening to me at the moment, but I know it will eventually. I just don't know how I will handle it.

I guess another reason I brought this up was because a man with cerebral palsy which he does have listed in his profile showed some interest.

I know what I can and cannot do. I know what I can't accept. I guess it bothers me because I felt bad, because I understood a little bit about what he was going through.

Anybody that is going through this or has experienced it I wish you well.

I also know it can be devastating if one in the relationship has a medical problem and the other doesn't I know this can raise issues.

If anybody has any insight to this I would totally appreciate it.

Have a wonderful day.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
1/24/2018 12:37 pm

 Sorry I can't be any help, just a few prays you have a full recovery with out any more troubles. and I can't get your message but I can get to thro blogs


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
1/25/2018 1:42 pm
    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    Sorry I can't be any help, just a few prays you have a full recovery with out any more troubles. and I can't get your message but I can get to thro blogs
Hi, and thanks for reading. I sure it's a subject we don't want to think about.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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