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No more classy sex?  

yummmmmm1959 65F  
29 posts
5/28/2016 4:57 am
No more classy sex?

As I gain wisdom (get older) it occurs to me that my view of sex is decidedly in the minority of FriendFinder-x members. I think that sex is the natural progression in a mutually appreciative,respectful, fun friendship. I mean, if you spend time with a member of the opposite sex who you find attractive ad fun, won't you have sex eventually? I came to FriendFinder-x many years ago to find conversation, company laughs, and to<b> meet men </font></b>whom i would develop a relationship that would include great sex!

But sex seems to have changed. Flowers, dinner, wooing and talking about subjects other than sex have become passe. Some women will gladly trade a blowjob for a nice dinner that may lead to a relationship and some men will lie to get that blowjob and take them to the cheapest place but tell them how pretty they are. I kinda envy women who can have sex with no emotional attachment. Perhaps sex would be the most convenient and satisfying if it could be managed like doing chores or getting your daily exercise. I need guidance here people. Am i alone in my thinking? Have i become the fuddy duddy of sex? Please share your thoughts and advice!

dreamon78 63M  
1199 posts
5/28/2016 5:24 am

 Your post reassures me that I'm not alone. I think sex is special and it should be a celebration of a very special connection between friends. There is a richness added by the intimacy that can simply not be found in casual sex. To me the most wonderful part of intimate sex is the time you share afterward. With someone special it is a beautiful time of celebrating the closeness of your connection. It's a beautiful time you don't want to end. In a purely casual session, that time just feels awkward.

You don't have to be everything to someone to share the joy of some beautiful passionate sex but there does need to be some form of bond. I want a partner to wake up the next morning smiling and knowing how much I treasured sharing something very beautiful together.
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yummmmmm1959 replies on 5/29/2016 8:21 pm:
Thank you for your response.

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
5/28/2016 6:44 am

 sex is not everything, it is nice to have, but there is more to life


yummmmmm1959 replies on 5/29/2016 8:23 pm:
I agree. Although important, it is not my primary objective

scottdc45 46M
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6/9/2020 7:56 am

 The best sex involves both physical and emotional connection, in my opinion. Thanks for a great conversation starter!


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