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Compatible I'm starting to wonder if what I've been searching for is really what I need. Should I continue to wait and look for that 10, or should I settle for finding a 7? My whole life, I've actually envisioned being with that 10. I saw myself getting married to that trophy wife and having beautiful . However, when I was growing up, I actually thought that I was going to be a pilot as well. Pilots seem to not have any problem getting 10's. I'm now just a computer dude. It's not a glamorous job in the least. I've had to settle for my second job, so should I settle for my backup plan with women? I'm at the point in my life that I really need to evaluate where I am. Although 32 is still considered young to some, face it, I'm getting older! I not only don't have a girlfriend, I don't have any prospects either. That ended when my last girlfriend ignored me. Now that I'm up in the middle of nowhereville, it's going to be much harder to find the quality girl that I've been searching for. I'm used to searching for girls that get all 'prettied up' and who like to go out to clubs, etc. Here, in the middle of nowhere, I'll be lucky to find a girl who even knows what makeup is. Lol - I'm not being mean, it's just that it's a different scene here. I love my house. I like my little new town (quickly growing) and I like where I am with my plans to go forward, but I don't like the now smaller chances of finding 'her'. I have to admit that I'm very frustrated. I want a family. I want a girl that's hot, but now I think I need the compatible girl. I need the girl that maybe likes sex once or twice a week (vanilla), who likes me, and is willing to have a family with me. She's most likely going to not be my 10. ~ AAS |
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Ah Darlin'....you're so missing the point. All women are "10's" to someone - and might I remind you that "your" 10's haven't really worked out for you. Perhaps...while looking for that perfect outside appearance...and in your obsession with that outside appearance you've totally missed the 7, 8 or 9 sitting right next to you with the heart and soul of pure beauty and the quiet passion that when woken would burn even you. "Beautiful" women are all around you - you're just not looking as deeply as you need to be. "Trophy Wives" are just that hun...trophies. How much better to have a woman beside you who knows you and all your failings and loves you anyway, who stands behind you, who lifts you up, who pushes you towards your dreams, and who holds you tightly when the bad times come. Oh yea...the vanilla thing...remember the old saying that still waters run deep and banked fires need only a tiny spark. Perhaps there's a woman out there who's just waiting for you to find her and set that spark on fire.  I make mistakes, I am out of control & at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~Marilyn
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12/16/2006 6:58 am |
Why would you expect to get a 10 when you arent a 10 yourself??? To know me is to love me.. 
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12/16/2006 9:27 am |
Ditto what impish said... You can find the perfect 10 who is merely a shell...but a pretty one, or find one who you may only rate only a 7 by narrow standards, but find she is actually a 12 once you see what's inside. "You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, she is beautiful because you love her." ~Author Unknown ~HLG78~ "As kinky as a cheap garden hose!"
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Why would you expect to get a 10 when you arent a 10 yourself??? I agree with pixie. Everyone is a ten to someone. In fact, I couldn't have said it better. I think what you are considering a 10 might be deamed that because of you cock rather than what your heart says. Both matter, don't let one over-ride the other too much. Hope you are well. Artistic
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12/16/2006 10:07 pm |
Ditto to the fact that you're looking at the wrong qualities. A 10 is the whole package, not just the outside. And have you ever heard of the saying, the more you get to know someone, the better looking they become? It's because you're seeing them from the inside out. Not the other way around. Beautiful women can be a 10 on the outside, but a cold, ungrateful -10 on the inside, catch my drift? And everyone is a 10 to someone. You just have to search deeper.
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lol - Yes, you are awefully hard to get a hold of...
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...and I guess that's really my point. If I settle for the 7 now, I'll most likely still be looking for the 10 later down the road. What a tough thing this is.
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Ah Darlin'....you're so missing the point. All women are "10's" to someone - and might I remind you that "your" 10's haven't really worked out for you. Perhaps...while looking for that perfect outside appearance...and in your obsession with that outside appearance you've totally missed the 7, 8 or 9 sitting right next to you with the heart and soul of pure beauty and the quiet passion that when woken would burn even you. "Beautiful" women are all around you - you're just not looking as deeply as you need to be. "Trophy Wives" are just that hun...trophies. How much better to have a woman beside you who knows you and all your failings and loves you anyway, who stands behind you, who lifts you up, who pushes you towards your dreams, and who holds you tightly when the bad times come. Oh yea...the vanilla thing...remember the old saying that still waters run deep and banked fires need only a tiny spark. Perhaps there's a woman out there who's just waiting for you to find her and set that spark on fire.
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Why would you expect to get a 10 when you arent a 10 yourself??? 1. Where the fuck did I say expect anywhere in my post?? 2. My last girlfriend was a 10. You should know who she is... she's the one you were trying to buddy up to, it seems, to stay close to me. 3. I may not be 10, sweetheart, but I've not been rude to you either. The only reason you put this stupid comment in my blog was b/c I've been ignoring you offline. The truth is, I've been ignoring everybody offline, not just you. So, with that, take your ass elsewhere or learn to play nicely on my blog.
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Ditto what impish said... You can find the perfect 10 who is merely a shell...but a pretty one, or find one who you may only rate only a 7 by narrow standards, but find she is actually a 12 once you see what's inside. "You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, she is beautiful because you love her." ~Author Unknown
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That was rather uncalled for and rude... if I were AAS I'd delete this comment. I agree with pixie. Everyone is a ten to someone. In fact, I couldn't have said it better. I think what you are considering a 10 might be deamed that because of you cock rather than what your heart says. Both matter, don't let one over-ride the other too much. Hope you are well. Artistic Yes it was rather rude and uncalled for. She's just pissed b/c I haven't jumped when she's called (literally) offline. I think I agree with you. I do look at some women and think of them of 10's. Then, I find out they are not from having conversations with them. I've actually been on some dates with beautiful 10's, who couldn't hold a conversation to save their lives. That quickly brought them down to 5's. The exterior is very important to me, I must admit. The inside is what makes me fall in love. I love the balance thing you talk about. I think that's what I do. Hugs!!
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Ditto to the fact that you're looking at the wrong qualities. A 10 is the whole package, not just the outside. And have you ever heard of the saying, the more you get to know someone, the better looking they become? It's because you're seeing them from the inside out. Not the other way around. Beautiful women can be a 10 on the outside, but a cold, ungrateful -10 on the inside, catch my drift? And everyone is a 10 to someone. You just have to search deeper.
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I'm not looking for centerfold, I think I'm looking for beautiful. I think that encompasses numerous qualities. I just know what I'm attracted to and what I'm not. It's just a very hard thing to find, as I'm not myself a 10 and really can't offer what other guys around me can.
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12/19/2006 5:30 am |
not to be mean... not too many tens here or in real life. most people are average. i'm definitely not a 10 and neither is the love of my life. it's easy to dismiss people based on superficial criteria and by those standards i should be a miserable lonely girl. BUT WHO CARES? no one else's standards are going to dictate the course of my life. no, you are not a 10, sweetie. but once you get past this growing stage, own your mistakes and stop making the same ones over and over, you will be a highly attractive wiser man. stop worrying about what other people can offer you, looks, status etc... start putting energy into what you can offer a woman as a lover, a friend, an independent man. for some odd reason, when you begin to make progress in these areas, what you want will find you if you are not too blind to see it. NOT TO BE MEAN... stop whining. it is unbecoming. you're a grown man. respect yourself. ( and i mean this in a loving way) stop looking for someone else to save you. they can't. *hugs*
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12/19/2006 8:19 pm |
Is it that I'm looking for the wrong qualities, or is it that I'm not seeing the better qualities? For example...my camel. I met him on the internet 7-8 yrs ago. For 4 of those years, I had no fucking clue what he looked like. And even when I did see a pic, it wasn't the greatest and I still was pretty much clueless on his looks. But, it didn't matter. Because I knew him from the inside out. I got lucky, I think he's hot. But then again, I knew him before I was able to judge his looks so that helped push him into the hot factor. And everyone has faults. NO ONE is perfect. It's accepting imperfections that make someone unique to you. So, I'm sticking with *wrong* quality(ies). And if a woman thinks she's only a 7 to you, that woman isn't going to be around for long.
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