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Posted:May 28, 2015 7:29 pm
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2015 7:40 pm
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Do Dominants care about a submissive happiness?
I have experience with men that claim to be Dominant but after some time I felt more manipulated than anything. These Dominants were not interested in learning about my desires, teach me as their submissive, or how to love me as their submissive. After breaking down emotionally and some reflection I realized they were not emotionally stable men and were not strong enough Dominants for a relationship, let alone a D/s relationship. So I wonder how do you tell the difference between the real deal and a bag of tricks?
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Dominant submissive lovers
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Posted:May 3, 2015 11:03 am
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2015 7:40 pm
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 I've recently met a Dominant man on this site. I'm wondering if anyone else here practices Dominance and submission (D/s)? Do you view this as a (FW friend with benefits, relationship, role play, or a life style?
At first, a couple months ago, this was the start of a wonderful, new role play that instantly lead to dating and has transpired into a relationship. As a result, I feel I am learning about my true nature but at the same time there seems to be an unwelcome level of negative emotions surrounding on line distancing and some physical and emotional rejection.
I am trying to learn as much as I can about my Dominant and how he wants me to submit to him but I am such an independent woman and out of practice that this seems to be more of a struggle for me than I expected. However, I actively practice submitting into the moment during times of distance/ rejection and it helps me be more aware of my spiritual side. I enjoy this aspect as well and so I continue my journey to learn to submit in my relationship with my Dominant as this is teaching me more to "let go and let God".
At first I thought I was more interested in scenes but as I continue my current journey I preference a more loving (D/s) Dominance and submission.
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