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Other Peoples Blogs Other Peoples Blogs **Once again the author takes no responsibility for any hurt feelings, bruised egos or general unpleasantness his blog may cause others** Well folks, the old boy has been wondering what to write about this time around....things that popped into his head were his own sex life or complete lack thereof, folks behaviour in chat....sorry I can’t help it, I can just sit there and watch for hours amazed, videos on the site, or as usual just a bunch of judgemental statements about things that annoy me, either about the site or life in general.....the old man syndrome. I have decided to write about all of them, and my own new favorite past-time....reading other peoples blogs....or literary voyeurism...so this may not be the most coherent blog I have ever written. You want to do what? Let’s start at that wonderful and fun place, my own pathetic life, and my complete lack of sex.....okay is everyone sitting down....the old boy hasn’t gotten laid in over 2 years.....lol, even I have to laugh at that. Now in all fairness to myself (weird playing both sides), I was out of the loop for about 6 months with my surgery and recovery, but even then it’s still a year and a half....wow....the only other post-pubescent stretch I have like that was after my divorce and that was mostly due to the fact I really was a bit fucked up in the head and dealing with any woman at that time was not something I wanted to do. Sure I could say my personal rule about not contacting women first might play a part, but to be honest, between this site and POF, I get plenty of invites. Am I stuck up? I don’t think so, not many old broke down soldiers walk in the ranks of the world’s elite, and I definitely don’t see myself that way. Am I too fussy, well depends on what too fussy means.....I admit I won’t fuck just anyone, but I also know I am fairly open minded when it comes to folks in general so it’s not like I have a list of do’s or don’ts (Well a small one maybe). Honestly, I think that with time I have gotten comfortable with my life and lifestyle, yes, I would love to share it with someone, but past experience has taught me that being with someone, just to be with someone, is always a disaster, and not worth the time nor effort. Also, I think I have gotten lazy.....lol. I can’t even count how many times I have gotten an invite out to coffee or meet, and I look up at the clock, and mentally debate the pros and cons of getting up, showering, shaving and getting dressed up for an evening....with the result of the debate usually being....nope not worth it. So the simple honest fact is I have become too lazy to fuck ..... lmao ... beat that one. Mutual Delusion Now I am a big fan of civility, of social ques and graces, which generally allow us to function in groups without offending and killing each other. But I have to question things I see in chat rooms, both on this site and in general. Now I admit, the time I spend in chat is mostly as an onlooker, not that I don’t like chatting, but I have a hard time with small talk....I tend to be more opinionated (surprise), and feel more comfortable when there is an actual topic being discussed. What I really suck at is the mutual delusion I see going on in the chat rooms. What do I mean? Well I will pop into a chat room, and just watch folks for a bit, and all you can see is 20 guys hitting on 3 women, and the women loving the attention (can’t blame them), but what gets nauseous is the bullshit that gets thrown around. Now at 50, I am the first man to admit, that my years of women drooling over me are long past (if they ever existed), and I am fine with that, yet all I see in these rooms are folks just like me pretending how gorgeous and sexy each other is......and feeding off it. Seriously, it’s like there is a rule in the chat rooms, I will tell you how gorgeous you are, if you tell me how gorgeous I am, and we will both pretend to accept it as fact.....yyeeecccchhhhh. Now I am not saying we should all be brutally honest, then no-one would ever get laid again, but tone it down a bit.....oh never mind, it’s just me bitching.....chat away. Other Peoples Blogs Which brings me to a touchy subject....definitely some serious egos involved in the blogging world. Now I love my blog.....yep, I love it, not because I think it’s the best blog out there....I know it’s not, but because I love the actual writing of it. I find it cathartic, I find that venting and expressing myself at the most base level frees my mind of life’s frustrations. I can spend hours writing each one, going over every point, making sure that there is something offensive to everyone, and trying to inject my own brand of twisted humour in each. I have also, quietly, read quite a few other blogs, both locally and internationally, (my blogs are huge in Germany and the Netherlands ... go figure), and in my own naiveté, I figured folks were writing theirs for the same reason....and some are. Now I am treading lightly here, as I truly don’t want to make anyone cry (Santa is watching), but I have noticed many different styles/types of blogs. There are the soapbox blogs (me me me) where some fool thinks he has all the answers to everything and feels comfortable sharing it with the world. There are the<b> whining </font></b>blogs, where the writer uses the blog to complain about anything and everything in their life both online and offline, these can be amusing, and I have written a couple myself, but too much can be tedious....and sometimes way too much personal information is shared and makes things very uncomfortable. There are the ego blogs.....treading lightly here again, where the blog is obviously about attention, whether its physical or intellectual, and seeks constant reinforcement from the readers....not a big fan of these. The worst part of this type of blog....is when you know the author, and you know what they are saying is bullshit, complete and utter bullshit....and Sarge being Sarge, I have actually had to force myself to delete responses I had written to these....back to mutual delusion. Then there are the weird guy blogs, which are always written by men, and usually consist of one or two incomplete sentences about how they are looking for or can’t find women. And the worst of the worst.....Sympathy Blogs.....okay I am a hardass....I admit it, I don’t generally feel sympathy for anyone other than and animals....and nothing gets under my skin faster than someone outwardly seeking if not demanding sympathy....and what’s even worse, so many of you folks out there are “nice” people, that they usually get it......yyeeeeccchhhh. Personally, as someone who truly enjoys writing (some of my poetry has even been published....little bit of an ego stroke there), the blogs I enjoy the most, are the ones I feel are well written, whatever their topic may be, so a shout out to a couple folks whose blogs I have enjoyed lately....Addzisback, Lapnapkinneeded and GhostofH....not to omit any others, but those are the ones that come to mind. Assorted Annoying Things FriendFinder-x Videos...maybe this is just me, but I have completely desensitized to masturbation.....meaning I have seen so many women rubbing one out, that it absolutely does nothing for me.....and I can only imagine how women feel after watching a billion guys jerking off.....if you told me when I was 15 I would get tired of pussy.....sigh....I would have thought you were nuts. The weather....I hate spring....sounds dumb dont it.. the birds are singing, the trees are turning green, etc etch....but to me, all that spring means is greyness, gravel, and slush......everything is covered in that dirty grey melting snow, and then as that melts you get the 4 inches of gravel covering everything, and thanks to all of that, you have to wash the damn car every day.....every fucking day....I hate spring. Curling....and bowling and darts and American college football and American college basketball and Nascar......and any other idiotic sport on tv that goes over its time limit and forces me to miss the beginning of one of my damn shows.....seriously Patience.....and how I don't have any....I just spent $5700 on a new laptop that blows away Alienware, and it’s going to take 22 days to get here......arrrrgggghhhhhhhhhhh Enjoy Sarge |
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Soldier patience is a virtue, I to wait for one always hope to meet the one.We all rant and rave, thats FriendFinder-x.I myself do not blog but I do like to respond to ones that share a true story and hit it close to myself.Im glad your recovered and moving on, go forth soldier a great world of great ladies are out there for you.
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 Didn't you get the memo that says men on this site aren't allowed to tell it how it is? Particularly the bit about the Emperor's new clothes of how gorgeous everyone is (or isn't...). You'll be saying women use "curvy" when really they mean fat next! 
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Get off your lazy whiney ass and get fucked 
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Like you, I come to FriendFinder-x to escape the real world for relaxation and fun. I too do not come here to hear/read 'sympathy' blogs nor those who are constantly down in the dumps. I only read the positive, upbeat blogs, and when chat in the room is mundane or too serious, or worse, off site topic, its time to bid the room adieu. Great post and nice to see you writing. Cheers.
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Well as usual you folks are too kind and gentle on the old boy...lol, but thank you kindly....and blissful....why is it the farther away you live from me the more willing you are to jump my bones..... I actually wasnt thrilled with this blog, been thinking about a few things to write about....any suggestions would be welcome.... Sarge
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Soldier had a chance to read over your blog last night and it is looking pretty good.. You call it as you see it. Everyone blogs here for all kinds of different reason. I have returned back after being away from blogging for almost as year. Meet some cool bloggers in my travels. Teasing, chucking shit at each other.. having fun at it too. Blog on and have some fun! Maybe someone will spark your interest and you will get luck! You can always spice it up and tell us about you and your service time. What makes you tick. hugs V  Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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LOL Blissful, you are going to make an old boy blush, now if you can only convince some of these local ladies of the same thing, I would be forever in your debt..... And sweet....I love the idea....I havent written a blog on my time in the army.....I have a 1000 stories (just ask anyone who has had to sit and listen)... Sarge
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Sarge. I will be waiting to read some of your stories. I am sure you had live a very adventurist life to say the least.. I have a few of mine own as well. Make your blog about you! I am sure you will have lots of interest.. How can they resist a man in uniform  hugs VBecome a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Well that was an interesting read for certain, thank you {=}
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Some blogs are indeed whiny/full of shit. (chuckle) and at the risk of opening myself to criticism I've posted a few whiny blogs myself, usually because I'm tired, frustrated and pissed off. But I figure folks can either deal or drive on. On the whole however, most of the blogs I follow are pretty good, and I get a giggle or two out of it! "You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.
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5/23/2018 9:51 pm |
oh man this place is fucked and not in a good way..the blog was a great read but ppl come on here to get laid and well some of us are still hoping to even though it rarely happens to some of us that show intelligence who thrive on maturity and intelligence..most men on here play with the little head instead of using the big one in case the little one lets them down lmfao...that's how I see it..thanks ..
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