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Safe Or Not So Safe..??  

Couple34982 72M/54F
192 posts
3/12/2013 9:17 pm
Safe Or Not So Safe..??

Safe sex seems to be on everyone's mind nowadays, almost everyone's anyway, and I will admit it is of far more concern to the ladies but here are my experiences.
I am 59 years old and have been having sex since I was 15. In all those years, hundreds of partners and countless times I would guess I have worn a rubber maybe six to a dozen times, and then only because my partner insisted.
Two of those times were in Nevada Brothels where it is mandatory. (Although a 3rd girl wanted bareback as much as I did and we skipped the condom)
In Mexico I have been to Tijuana 5 times, Mexicali, Acuna, and Nogales once each and Juarez and Nuevo Laredo more times than I can count. I do not believe I wore a condom in Mexico more than once or twice and most of the girls preferred it that way. Most were surprised I didn't want one but were happy to do it bareback. Of the "regular" girls, most preferred not to use condoms either. I wore them twice with an old GF who liked public sex, but that was when we had sex right in a bar, no one knew what we were doing, and we didn't want "wet" spots on our clothing.
I dated a OB/GYN doc for 3 years, and she told me that it's very unlikely for a guy to pick up a STD from a girl unless he has a cut or sore on his penis, but for the girl, if her partner has it, she’s gonna get it if they have unprotected sex.
The only thing I ever got was a case of Crotch Crickets from a girl once, she was screwing everyone in town and didn't shave "down there" Some flea and tick powder from the local pet store took care of them in short order.
I'm A Woman...I Require It
I'm A Woman...I Want It Bareback
I'm A Man...I Require It
I'm A Man...I Want It Bareback


If I Had Known I'd Live This Long I'd Have Taken Better Care Of Myself..!!


Couple34982 72M/54F
1727 posts
4/3/2013 2:22 am

    Quoting magnaotter:
    Nobody likes condoms. Nobody.

    But, personally, I like HIV, HPV, and herpes less. When AIDS started becoming a big thing, I got rid of alternate forms of birth control, because I *knew* I'd play it safe as long as I had that risk...

    Now I'm with a monogamous partner, we've both been tested, and I'm not worried - but until that point?

    I can't believe we're even having this conversation.
I can't blame you...as I said it is MUCH easier for a woman to catch a STD than it is for a guy, so it stands to reason a woman needs to be more cautious.
For my part though, I've ready lived far longer than I ever though possible so I'll continue to ride bareback... ...although there isn't much risk since I'm married now and Eve is about the only ride I have...

If I Had Known I'd Live This Long I'd Have Taken Better Care Of Myself..!!


magnaotter F
4037 posts
4/2/2013 2:57 pm

Nobody likes condoms. Nobody.

But, personally, I like HIV, HPV, and herpes less. When AIDS started becoming a big thing, I got rid of alternate forms of birth control, because I *knew* I'd play it safe as long as I had that risk...

Now I'm with a monogamous partner, we've both been tested, and I'm not worried - but until that point?

I can't believe we're even having this conversation.


easygoer56 69M

3/23/2013 12:53 pm

    Quoting Couple34982:
    I'd guess it feels different to them as well...maybe more like what a dildo feels like..??
    The only fun part of using a rubber is if you happen to get a girl who is good at putting them on with her mouth...
Now your talking! Id buy a box of rubbers if I could find a girl to put then on with her mouth. She would put it on and id take it off, just so she could put another one on. Oh wait, they have a name for that "Blow Job"!So forget the rubbers, Ill just take the blow job. lol


Couple34982 72M/54F
1727 posts
3/18/2013 2:08 pm

    Quoting easygoer56:
    I am one who likes to go bareback also. I dont know a man who dosnt. I know the condoms are the safest. Its just not the same. I dont know if it feels any different to the girls.
I'd guess it feels different to them as well...maybe more like what a dildo feels like..??
The only fun part of using a rubber is if you happen to get a girl who is good at putting them on with her mouth...

If I Had Known I'd Live This Long I'd Have Taken Better Care Of Myself..!!


easygoer56 69M

3/18/2013 12:53 pm

I am one who likes to go bareback also. I dont know a man who dosnt. I know the condoms are the safest. Its just not the same. I dont know if it feels any different to the girls.


Couple34982 72M/54F
1727 posts
3/15/2013 9:37 pm

    Quoting  :

Ya, women get the shaft in more ways than one where sex is concerned cause it's almost guaranteed that if the guy has a STD and has unprotected sex, the woman is gonna get it too.
Seems like everything we do can kill a person now days, and that's especially true of the fun stuff, but I've already lived far longer than I ever expected to so I just ain't gonna worry about it anymore.

If I Had Known I'd Live This Long I'd Have Taken Better Care Of Myself..!!


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