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Ladies : Some Suggestions To Help Turn You Into A Total Sex Goddess
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Ladies : Some Suggestions To Help Turn You Into A Total Sex Goddess Suggestions to help turn you into a total sex goddess Now I'm not doubting your sexual prowess here...far from it; but brushing up on how to turn him on every now and again can't hurt can it? For all I know you might be a total fireball in the bedroom but it's good to make it 100 percent certain. That's why if you're looking to be a total sex goddess then here are some suggestions to try in the bedroom. Chances are there are always things that you won't know about. So why not revise what you do know and maybe pick up a little something extra along the way? Either way if you use these tips you'll definitely blow his mind... So to make sure you know how to turn him on in ways no-one else can, then give these suggestions a try. We all have our body hang-ups (big and small!), but there's no point in bringing them up all the time and especially not at that crucial moment. Nothing is guaranteed to turn him off more than things like: "Don't look at my bum, it is a bit flabby but I'll go to aerobics tomorrow" or "I know my boobs are small but they look better in a Wonderbra, right?". He's not your best friend. He's not your therapist. He's not there to reassure you about yourself: he's there because he thinks you're sexy and gorgeous and wants to enjoy your body! Put yourself in his shoes: how would you feel if he was constantly beating himself up and pointing out his less-than-perfect bits to you? The fact that he's with you must prove you're what he likes, so stop being so disparaging about yourself. And stop hiding away in layers of clothes and constricting your breathing to hold your stomach in when you're getting intimate! The happier you are with your body, the more you'll both get out of sex. Think like Sharon Stone, who once said in an interview that at the crucial moment, men have other things on their mind than looking out for cellulite. Relax and be confident and it'll work wonders! Turning him on isn't just about a certain part of his anatomy, oh no it's a whole load more than that. A plunging neckline, a knowing smile and a cheekliy seductive glance can go a long way. It's what's call 'The approach technique', sending him an invitation that will make him go weak at the knees. Learn to take your time and don't forget that making him wait will make him want you all the more. Don't give in to what your body's telling you straight away; make him understand you're interested - it's better to let some sparks fly rather than going for a full on explosion too soon. It's all about suggestion: let your strap slip down to unveil your bare shoulder, send him a furtive glance before you touch him, or say it with a smile or a silence - gestures can often speak louder than words. Here's a road-tested little formula that's bound to get him begging you for more... Get him to sit on the bed and forbid him to touch you until you say so. All he can do is watch. Wearing suitably sexy, skimpy clothing, give him a brief but potent striptease and then start touching yourself, slowly, looking him in the eyes from time to time. Men are obsessed with female masturbation and see it as an ultimate fantasy, and he's sure to find it arousing. It's up to you to decide when he can join in... Let's just come out and say it - guys like to look. Men do like to have a good old perv of their girl and so giving them something gorgeous to look at is a dead cert for good sex. I'm not saying go on a diet, shave everything everywhere or put on a bit of slap - no no. All you need to do is to learn how to present your body in the most arousing way. Suggestive poses will highlight your best assets. Try to arch your back, part your legs slightly, take your bra off and don't cross your arms over your chest! And don't keep your eyes closed: enjoy watching the show. Meeting each other's gazes is a real turn-on too. So stop hiding under those sheets, flick up that switch and turn him on. My advice: Set yourselves up in front of a mirror, if what you see makes you feel uncomfortable, keep your back to the mirror. He'll be able to appreciate his performance and he'll feel like he's getting a private show! Like women, men don't just get their thrills from one place. They have several erogenous zones and it's easy to forget to use them all to their maximum potential! So get to know them and you'll be able to explore them using all the different techniques to mind-blowing effect. What are the erogenous zones: You can count that pretty much everywhere on the body will be an erogenous zone of some kind but the main ones to focus on are the lips, neck, ear lobes, feet, inner thighs, penis, testicles, nipples, and let's not forget - his bum. The male anus is where his G-spot is situated so if you're not shy try paying it a bit more attention. Some guys might find this a total no-go but there's no harm in asking - Coming up further I'll explain what to do with it... One area that gets forgotten about is the membrane of the perineum located between the anus and the genitals. If you fondle or caress this area, applying light pressure or moving in circles with the tips of your fingers while you're masturbating him or giving him oral sex, satisfaction will be guaranteed! It's not an area we think about stimulating, but it can produce explosive orgasms. The male G spot is located next to the urethra and the prostrate, on the back wall of the inside of the rectum, (separating the penis from the anus). OK, so it's not easy to find, but with a bit of perseverance, practice and...lube, anything is possible. Not every guy is going to want a finger up his special place, so knowing your audience is really important. If you get the green light then here's how to go forward. Going for the big G requires a bit of careful preparation and so we suggest that you warm him up a bit by licking, sucking and kissing his perineum and (if you're feeling particularly adventurous - his anus too) whilst you're giving him oral sex. You can then move on to massaging the whole area, maybe put a tiny bit of lube there too, the main thing is to have him nice and relaxed. Once you feel he's ready, gently put a finger up his anus and move your way around the rectal wall. When you feel a prominent spot the size of a walnut, you're there! Massage it with care, gently but firmly, for explosive results. You can even use a small vibrator there or anal beads and butt plugs if he really likes it. I'm talking about communicating with you guy here, like crazy I-want-to-cum-right-now communication. For starters it'll give you both a confidence boost when you're in the heat of the moment as well as giving you both useful directions to take your sex sessions to the next level. For shy types, little sighs of satisfaction and handy pointers, as simple as "Here, there, higher, right there" are a step on the way! More verbal types can let him know he's doing it right with cries of ecstasy, and can give more specific instructions such as: "I love it when you touch my *****" or "It drives me crazy when you put your hands there" or "I love it when you kiss me down there." Once you get into it, you'll soon lose those inhibitions and you might find yourself surprised at the language you find yourself using! Everyone's a winner here. Many men admit to being turned on by hearing women cry with pleasure or use vulgar language in bed. And if you express yourself properly you won't need to bite your lips with pain if his idea of 'stimulation' feels as if he's scrubbing a floor or scrabbbling in his pocket for loose change... Don't give him military orders. You don't want to scare him off or scare him out of doing what you want him to do. And if he's a delicate, romantic flower then talking dirty might not sound like music to his sensitive ears! Despite the image they often give out, all men have their doubts about their sexual prowess and could lose their cool in front of a woman who knows what she's doing. Exactly like you'd do if the tables were turned - the main thing is reassurance! Flatter him by showing him he's the only object of your desire and the only man on Earth who can turn you on like he does. Compliment the way he touches you and show him you're in ecstasy when he hits the spot. If you're over-aggressive or too direct, not only will you scare him but it could all be over too quickly - and speedy, unsatisfying sex leaves you with a feeling of frustration. Learn to touch him gently and don't go straight for the obvious! Men like a gentle approach too. It's all about mixing it up. Caress his thighs ever so gently, let your fingers wander over his neck, hold his hand and take things slowly. Don't ever get motherly with him. Reassuring him is good; mothering him, however, is not. Men often complain that they're always the ones who have to the first move for sex and they'd appreciate you jumping on them (or at least showing a bit of initiative once in a while). So take the plunge and let him know you want it. Sometimes a long look and a knowing smile is enough to get the message across... But at other times you do need to be a bit more<b> explicit. </font></b>Try whispering: "I want you" quietly in his ear while you're out with friends, sending him a cheeky text message at work, or letting your hands wander all over him while you're watching TV, to make your intentions crystal clear! If you're shy about it, a long, deep, lingering kiss is the first step to the bedroom! Choose the right moment to be the one to make the first move. One way that is sure to turn him on is to send him a flirty message when you're both out with the same group of friends. Getting a hot text from you while you're sat opposite him in the pub will have him in jumping over that table to take you home. |
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