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Who's Zooming Who?
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Who's Zooming Who? You are all well-aware of my penchant for posting preposterous e-mails that I receive, as well as my proclivity for returning fire with fire. But what happens when I actually pursue a line of conversation with a would-be critic? I think I made a new friend  , so be gentle with your comments as I don't wish to scare him away...Received this morning out of the clear, blue sky: Subject line: Frankly my dear who gives a.... Date: Sep 19, 2011 9:10 AM CDT Your delusional at best and full of **** at worst your strategy is old and tired..grow up Date: Sep 19, 2011 9:17 AM CDT I'm a bit confused...what strategy are you referring to? And what am I delusional about? Date: Sep 19, 2011 9:21 AM CDT A vast majority of you are confused that's no surprise every woman who wants a relationship from this site never says so hoping that the weight of the conversation, a few intriguing photos and blogging will allow them to discern who is "worthy" of their time and sexual energy..there are tons of forum for social networking why choose these venue at all...if you don't want to meet anyone why have a profile at all...it rather simple ...let the game take place elswewhere either you want to do something or you don't its pretty simple...you can make it HARD.. Date: Sep 19, 2011 9:26 AM CDT An interesting perspective... I have met people on this site in the past, and most likely will in the future. I simply chose to take a break for a while, as is my right and privilege. The "wanna fuk" emails that I receive get tiresome after a while...I opt instead to pursue, rather than to be pursued. My current profile is not meant to be construed as a challenge- it's meant to be a deterrent. And yes, you make a good point: I do use my blog as a filtering mechanism because reading it shows me that you have a wish to know more about me than just my body. Date: Sep 19, 2011 9:32 AM CDT The issue I find most hilarious here is the preter natural perspective of woman that they are worth the pursuit..the pursuit of happiness is guaranteed, whether you experience happiness is a matter of circumstance...here is my perspective to be quite honest men here for sexual conquest will be successful if they are really good at as you say "fuking" thats just the way it is..and while intelligence and reading your blogs is your port of entry it doesn't guarantee a solid connection, converging agendas let alone physical chemistry..at the end of the day only you know who you are and what you want and who you want but women who are confident enough to manage their sex lives in an adult fashion are few and few between here..trust me I've been here for over 5 years with over 5,000 hits to my profile so I know certain patterns when I seen them..human beings are quite typical at thinking that they are remarkable but at the end of the day you gotta be you whether you want to be or not or wheter you like it or not..you're here for a reason Date: Sep 19, 2011 9:43 AM CDT I never claimed to be worthy of pursuit, lol. In fact, it never ceases to amaze me when I receive an intelligently-written request to chat. For me, a confident and mature management of my sex life is defined by the pursuit of a like- minded man who oozes intelligence as well as semen. I am a fan of intellectual stimulation- I require it in my Lovers. Finding a man who is able to titillate my mind AND my body is proving to be a challenge on this site, one that I welcome. Because at the end of the day, yes, we all want sex. But perhaps I am more discerning than other women who simply want physical release. From a woman's perspective, SAFETY is priority number one. I simply cannot waive my standards and adjust my comfort level just to placate someone else. I need to know that when I am with you, I am SAFE. That comfort level only comes with time and effort- two things I recognize that not every man is willing to dedicate. But the man who is willing? Well, for him, anything goes . Date: Sep 19, 2011 9:49 AM CDT Men know that comfort and safety are a prerequisite and prelude to good times and we also know that an upper body persuasion takes place before a lower body invasion thats par for the course..true good chats reveal what's on your mind and how well you can handle your business because you can't fake interesting conversations..it can't be done, you can spot inconsistencies in words in most cases either your actions belie your words or your words belie your actions and if you can maintain consistency in both over an extended period of time, then there may be an opportunity..trust me its harder then you might think to find a honest adult conversation that may lead to some great times ...and for the right woman plans will be made Date: Sept 19, 2011 9:56 AM CDT I think you overestimate your brethren- Not all men carry the same respect for women as you might, and I have multiple physical<b> scars </font></b>to illustrate that point. Perhaps I am a bit more wary than other women, again, it's my right and privilege to require a certain level of trust and respect and my level of maturity dictates that I not waver from it. I live my FriendFinder-x life by a simple code: Full Disclosure at All Times. If we meet and I don't care to take things further, you will know. I don't allow time and silence to do my dirty work, and I expect the same deference in my partners. I won't waste your time and you better not waste mine. I can't fake interesting conversation because, frankly, I am both too lazy and too addle-brained to do so. As you said, at the end of the day, I have to be who I am and no one else. I had this conversation with an FriendFinder-x gentleman over drinks two nights ago. It never occurred to me to "be someone else" on this site. In fact, if you view my blog, you'll see photos of me wearing my pajamas, with no makeup on. Another reason to view my blog: you will get ALL of me- the cranky, bellicose bitch and the sexy, sweet siren, in equal measure. Take it or leave it- I recognize that I am not for everyone. And in fact, I rather prefer it that way . It would appear, XXXXXXXX, that frankly, you DO give a damn, lol. Now that you have visited my blog, I shall offer you a one-time opportunity to express your regret at calling me "delusional" and "full of shit", lol. I eagerly await his reply... When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load... |
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Wow 5 years huh. That's right around half as long as I've been here (if you count the couple years my profile was inactive). I wonder if he's had any better luck here then I have. 
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9/19/2011 3:10 pm |
A rather unusual technique, bordering on passive agitation .... but and I am afraid you have to accept this .... he got your time and caught your attention .. He does write well too !! regards
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I know you asked us to be gentle, but you know... these are the types of emails that I will never understand. I don't go out of my way to initiate contact with men that are clearly on a different page than me with what we're searching for. In fact, I've been downright disgusted, and even insulted, with some of the profiles I've read, and still I haven't bothered. So why in the fark do men feel the need to waste their precious time sending us an email that is really, no matter how eloquently stated, a straight-up shitty insult? If this new "friend" of yours has been on here so long and has people all figured out, as he thinks he does, then Hell's Bells, he shouldn't have the time to waste on emailing your "delusional" self, because he should be way too busy gettin' busy. I've actually been on this site longer than him, and what people desire changes as time passes. It doesn't make any of us right or wrong. It makes us human. *steps down off soapbox, kicks it aside, and walks away with a snap of my head* 
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This looks like a guy using the 'negging' technique. Worked like a charm to get a response. That kind of sucks. All are welcome to an audience with The Magnificent One oldirtybacchus
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Tell him to quit hogging all the periods. I like to punctuate, too. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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Like I've said, and AGAIN..... You ROCK my Dear!!!!
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